Girls, This guy goes to my gym and he does these things. He doesn’t talk much so I’m a bit unsure how to respond to him?

[Anonymous]

He is tall, muscular, and has a shaved head and a neat beard. He has touched my arm when he walked by me to greet me a few times. Once, we chatted briefly. Another time he poked the sides of my waist. Another time, we chatted a bit longer and he complimented me, and put his arm around my waist and tickled my stomach. He asked for my number, and I kind of like him but i’m not sure how to deal with guys like this.

[SueShe]

All my alarm bells would go off instantly.

That type of guy is obviously trying to pick you up because a decent person would not do all this inappropriate physical touching if he was not into something deviant. He clearly is interested in getting into your pants and he is aware that the gym is a good place to pick up girls.

You must realize that once he has got you where he wants you to be, you are just going to be yet another number on his trophy list and also another victim he can put on his body count.

Don't fall for those cheap tricks because he will discard you after use and when you are no longer a novelty to him.