Why is having a onlyfans account such a turn off for men?

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What’s so wrong with it? You wouldn’t date her?

CalmUntilAbused · Accepted Answer

Well... The answer, as happens so often these days, is responsibility. The men who are turned off by a girl having an OF account are those who are responsible enough to want a true, loving family. Now, it should come off as obvious that a girl who has no problem showing her body off for money... is not a faithful wife material. However, if You ask that question for Your own sake and not just out of curiosity, I don't think You'll ever have a problem with that. You see, the men wishing for a true, loving family are usually not considered to be attractive by women. There's only one archetype of a "family guy" that I know of who could be considered attractive for girls, and that's the character by the name of Dominic Toretto - a shotgun-wielding protector of His family who's basically emanating confidence and inner strength. Still... As indicated by a few other characters in His respective movie series, this attachment to His family still makes Him look weak when compared to psychopathic criminals. So... Yeah... A man like Dominic Toretto would ignore a woman with an OF account while searching for His significant other... but do such women even have time for a "weakling" like Him?

Levin · Accepted Answer

It is. Unless you have a face as pretty as Hannahowo sorry, it's a no from me. And the silly lass ruined her body with those implants and that tat. But that's another issue.

I suppose there is levels of gradation to this. As much as I can come across as a grumpy arsehole on here, I can also be quick liberal and forgiving. I could probably tolerate some kind of solo work or whatever, in the past, in extremely rare contexts. I just can't stand women sleeping around or having made any kind of boy girl material or whatever. It's just gross and std nasty.

Girlfriend material is a girl who is reasonable innocent.

The world out there is corrupting. Our significant other is our last bastion of morality and peace. As we are our own bastion of morality.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You're literally selling your body. That's gross. And now you want people to respect you for the decision you made. Maybe f*ckbois will date you but gentleman won't. It's a matter of principle. Get a real job and stop stooping this low. That's embarrassing. Why do you want random men to look at you? Don't you respect yourself. Men and women that sell their body or send nudes are always the ones with the lowest self-esteem and need the approval of strangers. I don't think random guys have the right to see my body. It's mine. They aren't my husband and haven't done anything to deserve me.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Some men are judgmental and very insecure.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

It's just not respected, cause for the majority of men, innocence looks good on women and it's attractive, onlyfans gives the opposite aura, don't get me wrong when men are horny, it's a different story but when not thinking with the wrong head it's different.

In_Trance · Answer

It's kind of contradictory when people have expectations in relationships of exclusivity something sacred and solidarity.
Generally speaking men still believe in this where women don't. Women think they do but they are far more promiscuous than men are.
Rhetorical question: how can you ever expect a man to treat you as something sacred when you don't even treat yourself that way?
Men are okay with only fans and they'll look at no end of accounts, and lots will pay for it. But it's foolish to think that any one of those men will ever commit to you

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

why would I date someone who can be seen online by anyone for the same price or less than a dollar menu value meal from McDonald's?

In my opinion she doesn't value herself any higher than a sale price at a dollar store. Why would I even attempt to spend one minute of my time with someone whose value I see no more than a pack of gum from CVS?

sawno · Answer

If we are going to be sexually exclusive we want sexual exclusivity. Not sexual exclusivity, except that other men get your attention and body as well. If it's in the past and you moved past that it's a maybe. If its current thats not for me, would feel like she's to likely to cheat and would feel like sex isn't the same thing to us.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's because men understand the product OnlyFans is actually selling; access. Women think OnlyFans is about selling porn, but that's not why men subscribe to OF pages; we subscribe to OF pages for access to the model.

Most men understand that access to a woman is a valuable commodity. Women with OF pages are cheapening that access by selling it to strange men online.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Because hypocrites. Watch men go ah that's bad but them not complain when they watch porn to jerk off lol.
Watch women say that's bad but then call these same men bad for shaming women who show some skin. Funny little hypocrites right?

Anonymous · Answer

Because it literally means you're sharing with random strangers things you should only be sharing with your boyfriend/husband. Sorry Sex workers are good for one thing, and one thing only, a one night stand or a pump and dump. They are not now, nor have they ever been wife material.

Pohjolan · Answer

I’m not looking for nothing serious See? Generally speaking it signals that they are not material for a long term relationship. Moreover a woman with a OF can't fully respect a man who invests into her as it either suggests that he is enough gullible to do so or unable to attract a decent woman. But its ok since that's not what you are looking for. Just tell them that you are looking for a fuckboy

JesseP1nk · Answer

If you have Onlyfans, would you tell your mom, grandmother, daughter, niece about it?

No i would not date her. Why? If only way to her make money is to sell picture of her butthole then she is a fucking dumb. Why not go learn something and make something out of your life? Instead wanna be some onlyfans girl and not knowing their true potential?

Anonymous · Answer

support people’s right to do sex work but I also support my right to call it gross. All porn is bad and I’m tired of people pretending like the whole thing is empowering for anyone involved. It's also dangerous for both her and her kids/future kids. What kind of man doesn't protect his woman and kids? These women like to believe nothing bad can happen to them, but you aren't safe just because you're online.

Avicenna · Answer

Because any man with an ounce of self-respect doesn't want to share his girlfriend or wife with a bunch of random men.

Billlewis · Answer

It isn't a problem for me at all; I think it's sexy as hell.

genericname85 · Answer

because you're monetizing assets, that traditionally people want to themself privately and not to be public. that's why.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Men don't like being with a woman who everyone and their mother knows the ins and outs of her body something women constantly claim is oh so sacred

Whitey_Johnson · Answer

Not a turn off if I'm making content with her. js.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

A guy might "date" her but he will never take her seriously.

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

Because those sites like fanvue, patreon, onlyfans, are morally repulsive. And need to die

Anonymous · Answer

Because it is virtual prostitution, and no one wants to date a prostitute.

Nice222 · Answer

Not a turn off for me at all. More of a turn on. Actually.

laly520 · Answer

everything wrong with it

MemeSupreme · Answer

come on... you know why lol

Jennz6 · Answer

I used to have ONLYFANS account

Sameone · Answer

Yes  And also red flag

jahaims · Answer

She has zero self respect

Wise4myage · Answer

I'm guessing a lot of guys think its cheating.

nawtee_me · Answer

I have no issues with it at all...

msc545 · Answer

It means you are basically a whore.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

That site is like porn site from what I have seen.

dolemite58 · Answer

It’s being a prostitute on camera

war_daddy · Answer

it's something only poor dumb cheap whores do

Anonymous · Answer

Whores are not attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

how is it different from porn?

riverrat3 · Answer

I think it is great

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