It depends on the situation. If I’m just trying to bust my nut for the night then yes. Double standards I know. If I’m trying to find something real, then no. When a girl is easy even if her I get ions are to find something real men start to wonder how many times has she done this before? Does she get around? Is she that easy? Etc. So all these thoughts run through your head that tend to turn you off. Sure she may have thought if I sleep w him right away he won’t like me. Which could happen but if that’s the case then you know he was only after that one thing. If she refrains to which he continues to see her, than there’s a better chance of something developing.
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Easy going is not always the same as “easy” the way you think of it.
But why is it still called “easy” in current day? Feminists are all about “sex positive” right? Women should be judged nor more harshly than men for promiscuity, right?
Calling a woman a slut/white is now just as bad as calling a minority a racial slur nowadays. Seriously I can count the times on one hand in the last 20 years a man seriously called a woman a slut/whore.
So why is still considered “a prize” women are giving away? Why is it still a bargaining chip? Sex is supposed to be mutually enjoyable and equal (yes I know it’s biologically more complicated for women) between men and woman. No separate judgement for promiscuity vs being prude.
So why are your worrying about this?
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If a guy is horny and looking to get laid, he likes an easy girl, especially if she is attractive. All he wants is pussy and if you give it freely, then he is satisfied.
If a guy is looking for a long term partner, what he wants is someone who will be a good wife, a good mother, and a good companion. Easy pussy is a small factor in that equation.
The only easy women I like are those that are easy on the eyes, and easy on the brain.
I would never expect my girl to just lay down because I want it, it's not a relationship, if the sex is always initiated by one-side.
Nothing more attractive to me than when my girl takes the initiative. It tells me she's attracted to me and that I still turn her on.
It's sort of tricky. Because we know that if you're easy with us, then more than likely you're easy with other men, which could easily lead to cheating down the long road, or could result in us knowing you have a bad past. But if you're too hard, we're gonna back off because it wouldn't be worth us wasting our time on a woman who has absolutely no interest in us. So it's a very tricky situation.
Easy , well not let anyone think that its that " Easy " ( even if it is ) , they want to think that they have been presented some kind of challenge , and that they have succeeded in that challenge , yeah guys needs to be guys agreed , never considered " safe " , and always ready , available is good , and I like the way you think , indeed.
tough call.
At bar time you betcha, then you don't have to go home alone.
Otherwise, I used to be that way, but now that I'm older I have found that I really need to like the person that I am with.
So just getting laid isn't the priority anymore as it once was.Not easy in the way you think but I think we like women who are easy going, who don't play around or play hard to get.
It's not all about the sex, and when it comes to sex we don't want a women who is easy as you say but not exactly hard to get either.
If a woman is up front with a guy about liking him or wants to have sex with him and she know he like her then cool.
It's more being in the vibeWhen I was in mid teens I admit I reveled in these types. Then maturity changed my opinion and pity I felt. I know a few that went through this still today. They matured too, got it together and helped build a family. I'm happy for them especially Dee, who went through an abortion at 15. Battled alcoholism and drug addiction emerging victorious all before age 20. She still carries remorse at who might have been but Hope's for that reunion through Jesus Christ.
I think guys like if a girl is attractive. If she's easy, that makes it easier, but it's not an attractive trait in itself, I think. On the other hand, being super difficult isn't attractive either.
I'm supposed to say yes, because otherwise people assume there is something wrong with me, but I'm old school. For me it's not about jumping in to bed at the drop of a hat. I like to get to know her first!
Personally no I don't want an easy girl but I'm not the kind to sleep around anyway so it doesn't matter. I'm not that girls type either which I'm fine with.
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