Guys, What type of woman behaviour you dislike the most and is such a turn off?

[Anonymous]

[Rich3610]

Obfuscation is the behaviour I dislike the most. The most common example of this is when a woman says “I’m fine”, but clearly is far from it. This spirals off to the “21 Deadly Terms” used by women when they are upset, which for us men turns the conversation into a minefield inside of a labyrinth. There are countless articles and even books on the subject, and few are remotely helpful. Guys have similar undesirable traits/behaviours, and they come from upbringing, culture, and/or past experiences. Essentially it is an inability to express one’s self, speaking directly to what the cause of the upset is. For example, I’m cuddling with my wife on the couch. Instead of asking me “Could you bring me a glass of water?”, she says “I’m thirsty”. This is a mild example, but is nonetheless still the minefield inside of a labyrinth, because while some women want/expect their men to take the hint and get them a drink, other women would be offended by that action and assumptions. Obviously, couples should get to know each other well enough, and this situation wouldn’t become a larger issue. But when you’ve made your lady upset, and genuinely have no clue what you did wrong, the arguments quickly become more intense and protracted than they should be. Everyone’s feelings are valid, and I’d never suggest suppressing anger or upset. I would, however, strongly urge both women and men to put egos aside for a minute, and make an effort to communicate those feelings as clearly as they are able. If there is still a hesitation or other reason that prevents speaking direct, try to de-escalate and find another way to reach each other. For me, anytime that I have upset, angered, or annoyed my wife, it is very important to me that 1) I acknowledge her feelings and do my best to understand her position, 2) determine what I did or said to cause those feelings, and 3) do whatever is necessary to correct my mistake (s) and make things right with her (not just offer empty apologies).

[Billlewis]

If she's too nice to me or gives me too many compliments, that's a definite turn off.

[Drew-1990]

Being ghosted or girls that need to show off and get every guys attention.

[NathanDavis]

besides the obvious ones...

anything that steams from deep rooted insecurity

[bobby_bush_eater]

Behaving in a masculine manor, loud, argumentative, non sensibly competitive, being rude and lastly a sense of entitlement/self importance

[OtterMan68]

being rude

being full of herself

obsessed with her physical appearance: hair, make-up, and clothes

[DrPepper12]

Put the phone down!!! Don't look to your friends for their approval if we're just meeting!!

[SolitarySolace]

Entitlement complexes, god complexes, and condescension.

[RetroReviews]

Belching loud as possible

[andreasderjuengere]

The loud type.

And the gossip type.

[JacobJordan]

Anything that isn't a feminine woman.

[jahaims]

Attention seeking for validation

[Anonymous]

Attention seeking.

[spartan55]

Reposting stupid questions anonymously.

[Asker]

Not as stupid as an 52 years old motherfuckin pedo scrolling on girlsaskguys , its not girlsaskpedos

[spartan55]

Lol... that wasn't too difficult.

[BarryLiverstone]

Abuse

[Iron_Man]

Ghosting