Why would a guy follow a girl on social media years after no contact?

[Anonymous]

[HateyouxD]

Maybe he was inclined to talk to her but too chicken. Or still in a relationship and respecting his partner. No one can really know without context

[HateyouxD]

Honestly this guy has been following me for years just watching. I hope it means he wants me too

[Asker]

He probably does but is scared to reach out. How about you reach out and see where it goes.

[HateyouxD]

I have... i was ignored lol

[Asker]

Sorry to hear that. I'm literally in the same boat right now.

[HateyouxD]

Im confused. You hit up a girl and she ghosted you? Or she's ignoring you?

[Asker]

I hit her up via text message and she ignored it. We talked a little bit in the DMs but nothing serious. Technically I don't think she ghosted me because there was nothing besides very minimal small talk.

[HateyouxD]

I dont r
She's interested but ffy try again

[HateyouxD]

She's not interested*
But you can try again

[Asker]

Like you said she is not interested so I'm leaving it alone. If she wants to talk it's on her to reach out.

Since you are a woman please enlighten me and tell me why do girls follow guys back especially if they know the guy likes them and they don't feel the same?

[HateyouxD]

Attention

[HateyouxD]

Women love that shit. But a respectable woman will say she's not interested

[Asker]

Can you elaborate on what you mean by woman loving attention?

[HateyouxD]

There's not much to elaborate on but when a girl and a guy meet and she realizes she doesn't like him and he move on she might chase after him because he gave her attention. I've been through that before. I said attention because you asked why do girls allow a guy to follow them knowing the guy likes them

[Anonymous]

He's curious about her life and what she has been up to.