Funny whenever I ask a woman this question she either:
1) says one thing and does the exact opposite a few weeks or months later.
and/or
2) gets uncomfortable/cold and stops talking to me.
Most women nowadays catch feels for a man who meets their immediate “emotional” needs which are always fluctuating. They then decide to stay or leave after dating him for while once they determine if he’s ideal for the long run.
Not to say that men too can live for the moment in dating. But we usually have more shame about contradicting ourselves later. We get called out on it more hence the saying “I am a man of my word”.
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The truth. The reason guys ask is because we are trying to get a sense of whether or not you are being realistic or delusional. For example many modern women who have a kid and a dozen+ exes want a rich, 6ft tall handsome big dicked man to take care of them. Something those women will never have. Another example would be a woman who is a good person decently attractive no exes no troubled past who wants a man to love and cherish and wants to have a partner for life. Of the 2 the second is likely to find herself a husband.
I would be honest with them about what you're looking for. But please be careful, sometimes people will ask you this question because they want to morph into your dream guy/girl so you will like them. It's a disingenuous way of getting you to fall for them. They'll change or adopt their personality according to what you're looking for, rather than show you their real personality.
Not everyone does this, but I've seen it happen. So once again, be careful.
I wouldn't know. I also question the question as you do. No clue how to answer it or what answers they're looking for. Now, can I know what I want in a man? Yes, kind of. But it's different when the question is asked.
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So they right that you lying? as you don't really want to be single, anyway it not an easy question, especially if you have a lot list of traits that you looking for in a part partner, myself I am saying that I am looking for a woman who is not a ho, because it the most important thing for me, there of course other things that I care about, like if she okay with having children.
I would tell them the truth, if I were you. Even if the person thinks you are lying at first, they'll see that your actions match your words, at some point, and then they'll start to believe you.
My father once told me that if you are someone who lives up to your word, you'll be a rare person. So far, my life experience has shown me that what he said is true.
Easy. Don't tell him what you want in a man. Tell him what kind of relationship you want. Describe it to him. He'll figure the rest out.
The truth is always good. If a guy doesn’t believe you then that is a good sign that he is not the one and move on. I see nothing wrong with having exes in your past or even being friends with your exes. Those things tell a lot about a person. However if a potential date or partner has a resent break-up then be on guard. Unresolved issues could make a relationship become a threesome between you, he and his ex as you get compared to them….
"I'll let you know if you qualify" is what i'd say.
Asking this is so stupid. Why? So he/she can change to be what you want? Then he/she is not being thier true authentic self.
I would NEVER answer a woman who asked me this.
That is as much of a difficult question as "Tell me about yourself". I do not belive there to be a right answer here. I don't belive I have ever asked this of anyone either.
I mean what is is the truth? I would start with that. If you plan on staying single that’s fine, if you want a relationship you can filter out the men you wouldn’t be compatible with anyways
Just tell them, "I'm looking for a guy with a really big p***s. Like freakishly huge!"
That will probably end the conversation immediately.
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only u could answer such a question
u could list the qualities u looking for in man u wanna date
Simple.. Just say this:-
I won't know until I find it!
Just tell the truth. If your truth is you're not sure, say that. You can always follow that up with I'm not sure but I'm sure I'll know when i meet the right person.
You could describe your realistic most ideal man and the ideal long term or short term goals that you want.
You start off by saying "Believe it or not but..." and then you just answer the question.
why are you talking to people that don't believe what you're saying?
Cuz they wanna bend over backward cuz they needy af
Grab their crotch, then say “meh” and move on.
Generally, I find women can be pretty honest about what they're looking for in a man.
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