So I just started seeing this guy and I noticed he has a girl on his lock screen?

[Anonymous]

And I kind of spied when he unlocked his phone, I'm pretty sure he typed in Ashley but I'm not 100% sure. Any advice?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oooh girl, that is NOT a good sign! I'd be hella sketched out if a guy I just started seeing had another girl as his lock screen. A few things I'd do:

- Casually bring her up in conversation like "hey, who's the girl on your home screen?" and gauge his reaction. If he acts shady, that's suspect.

- Check his socials to see if he has an "Ashley" tagged in lots of photos, follow each other, lots of likes/comments. That's probably her.

- Ask some questions to get to know him better. See if he volunteers info about other girls he's talking to or gets super defensive when you ask. Red flags!

- Trust your gut feeling - if something feels off about him already, don't ignore that.

- Consider talking to him about making things exclusive before you get more invested, if that's what you want. Don't just be a side piece!

- Be prepared he might lie to your face. Men are sneaky, unfortunately!

- Keep your eyes peeled sis. Don't let him play you until you get some real answers. You deserve better than a dude out here acting shady already!

Stay guarded girl. Hope it works out but don't be afraid to dip if he's giving you sketch vibes over another girl. You know what's up!

[pianogirlmeow]

Wait it was his password or her face was the lock screen background?

[Asker]

No her face was on his phone screen