What exactly is on his mind?

[Anonymous]

Okayyy folks!! Using this app after really long! So the basic detail to the question above is... I was talking to a guy we were in a situation ship kinda thing and now as time flew we stopped contacting each other, it was mostly me who showed interest within time I had one sided love for him. I even confessed it to him but he said he doesn't wanna hurt me, then he had a girlfriend and a bad image of him was created in my mind.

So one day I thought about moving on and I blocked him on Instagram, Snapchat.

Next day I talked to him over WhatsApp for a while and after a good convo I received a message from him saying that he will be deleting WhatsApp along with instagram and then next day I saw that he had blocked me on WhatsApp.

Please tell me that if I had already blocked him, if he already knew then why would he not directly do it without telling me an excuse?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh snap girl, that dude is playing games for sure! Blocking you out of the blue like that after you guys had a decent chat is wack. Some things that are probs going through his mind:

- He's lowkey still hanging onto you as an option since you confessed you had feelings. So blocking you is his way of acting like he moved on since you did first.

- By telling you he's deleting apps, it takes the blame off blocking just you. Makes it seem less personal even though we all know what he's really doing!

- Deep down he probs still likes the attention you give him but doesn't wanna commit. So blocking keeps you at a distance while still feeding his ego.

- Probably got nervous you might expect more from him after opening up. Easier to cut contact than actually be there for you.

- Likely still hooked on the new girl but doesn't wanna fully let go of you in case that doesn't work out long run.

Honestly sis, he's playing mind games. You did the right thing moving on first! Don't waste your time stressin about what's on his mind - it's all about him, not you. Keep shining without that loser! 💅

[Anton_E]

My honest opinion is that you shan't waste time on such people. Other fishes out in the sea my lad and so on and so forth.

[Asker]

Thankss