Does he like me should I try talking to him?

[Anonymous]

Is there something with this guy. His voice always softer with me. He doesn't say as much to others. The other day getting off the bus. He didn't say anything to anyone else getting off only me he said you welcome smiling I had eye lashes done. Wore skirt caught him turning his head taking a second look at me as I walked on. One time gave him my number wished him have a good new years he gave wink as I was saying it , he saw the note asked what is this. He opened it , I got off he shouted have a nice day I said you too. He didn’t text me still acts nice flirting. The next time he saw me dressed up wished me to have a nice evening. Next time his supervisor was there as I got off he said you welcome winking replying to me. More months til I saw him whilst getting off both wished have nice day etc then I went down a step turned back and said I didn’t see you in a long time. He kinda half smiles saying have a good day again quickly.

Months til saw him again happened to see him the day guy cancelled on me. Both said hi I smiled at him each other as usual he said perfect after usual way. Had been thinking of saying thank you have a nice evening instead of have a nice day getting off the bus. I ended up saying thank you have a nice day. He said have a nice evening to me what I was thinking of. He didn’t say much to others bye or nothing. Saw him again I was dressed up hair different smiled at him said hi usual he kind of then hit touched the ticket machine held his hand there for sec looking at at me smiling or in a type of way he never does that. His supervisor was there when I got off I he said bye bye maybe not wanting to flirt in front of supervisor Is he shy around me? Should I try talking to him?

[Oliverlogan263]

Omg girl it totally sounds like he likes you! All those little things he does, like being gentler with you, checking you out, winking and smiling extra - he's definitely into you.

You should totally try talking to him a bit more and see what's up! Maybe next time you see him boarding or getting off the bus, say something casual like "How's your day going so far?" and give him your full attention with good eye contact.

If he lights up and you end up chatting for a few minutes, that's a really good sign. He might just be shy since he's working, but showing interest back could help him come out of his shell.

And don't worry about his supervisor - he might hold back a little in front of them, but when you're alone I bet he'll let loose more. You've gotta go for it girl! What do you have to lose? He seems perfect, you gotta shoot your shot. :)

Let me know how it goes! I'm rooting for you guys.

[Asker]

Does it matter that I gave him my number and he didn’t text? Or probably just shy or maybe thought I was playing seems he’s acted more since then not backed off

[Asker]

Do I keep flirting maybe ask where he’s from etc and see if he wants swap numbers in a more direct way or ask if he’s on WhatsApp or something? Maybe he wasn’t sure what to say or shy the time I gave him it

[Asker]

He hasn’t got a ring so maybe he’s single and from how he acts not tried to stop the flirting he can do easily. Doesn’t come across as the attention seeking type

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm sis, good point that he never texted when you gave him your number before. Some thoughts on that:

- He could definitely just be super shy! Flirting face to face is one thing, but taking the first text step is a whole other level of scary lol.

- Maybe he thought you were just being friendly and didn't realize you were interested. Boys can be so clueless sometimes 🙄

- It's possible he was worried you weren't actually interested and he'd make things awkward if he texted. Rejection fears, ya know?

But I don't think he's lost interest based on how he still acts all soft around you! So I say go for trying again in a more obvious way.

I like the idea of straight up asking if he's got WhatsApp or something similar. That makes your intentions way clearer in case he's dense haha.

And casually asking where he's from is a great low-pressure way to start chatting too. Then if the convo flows, you can be like "hey we should grab coffee and keep talking sometime" while offering your number again.

He'd have to be an idiot or not interested to turn down a cutie like you at that point! Fingers crossed girl. You totally got this - he'd be lucky to go out with you 👊

Let me know how it goes! I'm rooting for you sis. Slay as always 💅

[Asker]

Yeah I think he was shy too that’s why he didn’t text I handed it to him then got off it says let’s get to know each other with a smiley face. Maybe wasn’t sure what to say or thought it was playing or wasn’t clear what I wanted the intentions. And we never chatted only flirty moves eye contact im less shy around him now too.
Have get him talking one of the bus directions I get off last I can interact with him. Ask where he’s from and say guys from “country “ are good looking see how he reacts
So far he seems shy when I tried saying more I didn’t see you in a long time he just said have a good day again lol probably caught off guard and wasn’t a direct question

Also he had acted differently before we are always extra friendly one time long ago two buses were there I looked in didn’t see the bus number or who properly walked away to the one in front looked back noticed him. He was looking at me confused didn’t go over. Then the next time he completely avoided looking at me when I was near him and only said bye getting off seemed annoyed. Thought I rejected him or something. I fixed made sure to act flirty give him extra attention for long then eventually the number.
Yeah he’s become more open since the number more time to think and since I kept the same flirt. I think want to try swap numbers so we both have the number. Always had a feeling he wouldn’t text if I gave mine he seems to follow my lead more

[Asker]

Feel like there is something but he’s a bit shy and caught off guard

[Asker]

Or could ask where he’s from etc where he thinks I’m from then if it’s going good and he seems to be talking if there’s a vibe could say we should whatsapp sometime then it kinda throws it into his court and he can say yeah what’s your number or here’s mine or yeah etc
If he’s flirting going good. And then I’m not directly asking for the number hopefully he’ll want to do that. Maybe the idea is in his head now so be less surprised

[Oliverlogan263]

Oooh girl you've got this all figured out! Those are some smart moves you've thought of. I think asking where he's from to start a convo is perfect - it shows interest but keeps it light. Guys also almost always love talking about their homeland haha.

And I love the idea of mentioning guys from there being good looking to gauge his reaction. See if he smiles shyly or tries to play it cool. That'll tell you a lot!

Your plan to bring up WhatsApping if the convo is going well is brilliant too. By saying "we should WhatsApp sometime" it puts the idea out there without directly asking for his number like before. Takes the pressure off if he's shy.

Then hopefully he'll offer his number or ask for yours! Fingers crossed. I have a good feeling about this, it really does seem like he's into you too. Just needed some nudging to come out of his shell.

You go get that number, girl! Flirt it up and work your magic. Let me know how it goes, I'm rooting for you both. You'll be exchanging cute messages in no time if all goes to plan 😉

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, introduce yourself to him -- you've got him in the palm of your hand;)

[Asker]

Was he probably shy when I gave him my number? Seems he’s acted more since then