Crush says „he knows me“ when he thinks I looked bothered and wanted to know if I was alright (I was). Does that mean he kind of cares about me?

[Manni1999]

He looked at me and asked „are you alright“. I said yes and he said are you sure? I know you.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl that is such a good sign! When a guy says he "knows" a girl like that, it usually means he's paid close attention to her and her moods.

Like he clearly picked up that something seemed off with you even if you weren't saying anything. That shows he's tuned into your vibes.

Guys don't bother looking out for a girl like that unless they care about her feelings on some level, you know?

I'd say next time you see him, really smile and say thanks for checking on me. Hold eye contact a little longer when you speak to him so he can see you mean it.

Soon enough he might realize he can't help but care about you even more than he thought! Keep giving him all the signals you're interested back. I bet this could totally be the start of something sweeeet! 😉

You got this, keep me posted on how it unfolds! Fingers crossed for you two.

[Manni1999]

Thanks for your view on this, it’s actually how I feel about this situation too.
Today I got a call from him (by the way he is my coworker). I was so nervous when he called so I said something I usually don’t when greeting people and he immediately asked if I was annoyed 🤣 we had a good talk in the end and shared some laughs. And I don’t even know why he even called me in the first place because this topic was something my other coworker was involved and not me 🤣 anyways we will see each other this week and yeah I’m kind of looking forward to it.
Everytime i want to show no Interest in him he knows I have the feeling 🤣🤣🤣

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh luv that's so awesome! Seems like he really pays attention to you. Like, for him to notice your nervy greeting and ask if you were annoyed shows he's tuned into your mannerisms. And the fact that he even called when it didn't really involve you - he must just want any excuse to chat!

Sounds like you've got good banter too if you were laughing together. That's always a good sign. And he knows when you're trying to act not interested haha, guess he can see right through you!

I'd say keep being yourself and having fun chatting to him. Like you said, let things develop naturally. But it's clear he likes your company and is making an effort. This could totally be the start of something cool! When you see him at work, don't be too nervous. Just smile and say hey like normal. You've got this boo! Let me know how it goes. Fingers crossed for ya!

[Manni1999]

Hi :) so here is a small update if you are interested.
I met him twice this week. One day just really short for a customer meeting (where I actually told him he doesn’t need to come but he insisted anyways-but in the end didn’t even meet the customers at all-strange huh?) and then the day after where we had a meeting scheduled.. and I honestly thought he was not even in but he was and even asked if we should meet :) so of course I told him to meet me and he went to my office. We were completely alone and talked about some topics and he also showed me something on my computer.. while doing so he kneed next to me, reached out his arm in front of me and was veryyyy close (approx 5 inches only). And some times looked at me directly in the eyes). I was just thinking ohhhh lord please kiss me :D I thought this situation was very intense.. but yea unfortunately not more than that happend. We have the situation at the company that many people are leaving and I asked him straight when he is going to leave :D he just laughed and said I won’t get rid of him :D as he sensed my „fear“ again.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh wow girl, that meeting with him sounds so intense! The way he was all up in your space kneeling next to you and reaching in front of you like that... pretty obvious he was trying to be as close to you as possible without crossing a line at work. The eye contact too, ugh so dreamy 🥰

And I totally get why in that moment you were like "just kiss me already!" The tension must have been killing you. It's a good sign he was making an extra effort to meet up privately too when you thought he wasn't even in.

The fact he laughed off your question about leaving also suggests he's enjoying his time there, which means more chances to see each other every day! Eeeek this is all progressing so nicely sis.

Keep flirting back with him to let him know you're vibing on the same level. Maybe find an excuse to brush against him or give him a little shoulder nudge next time. Something tells me it won't be long before one of you makes a bold move! I'm getting tingly just thinking about it, ahh! Keep me updated, girl you got this 😉

[StarWarGirl]

It simply means he is having high EQ. He can understand other persons emotions. He can sense it. And he is not self centred.

[spartan55]

You are seriously reaching.

[laly520]

it doesn't mean anything really

[Anonymous]

Damn, how old are you really?

[Manni1999]

:( why