Would you feel hurt or disrespected if a guy called you “unstable” or “crazy?”?

[Anonymous]

Even if part of you feels it’s true

What makes a woman unstable in a man’s eye?

[Lliam]

You should feel hurt and disrespected. He's a complete ass hole and has no respect for you. He needs to diminish you in order to feel good about himself. He thinks women are only good for satisfying his sexual desires.

If you stay with that guy you're stupid.

[Anonymous]

You made him feel unsafe or at least uncomfortable.

[Asker]

How can I make someone feel unsafe if I never threatened them?

[Opinion Owner]

The guy called you unstable or crazy? They think you did something that made them feel unsafe or uncomfortable.

[Asker]

Right I don't know what made him say that.. he just said “no offense but you come off a bit unstable “

Or

“I’m scared to sleep with you because you’ll be crazier “

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you want to be with someone like this? Find someone who appreciates you.

[Asker]

What does that mean? 😢

[Opinion Owner]

Partners have your back.

[Asker]

Yeah

Plus he follows a trans woman that post explicit pics

[Opinion Owner]

The plot thickens.

[Asker]

Is that a red flag?

[Opinion Owner]

Insults are a red flag

[midnightmoon05]

Well…are you two having sex?

[Asker]

No we weren’t… he said he was scared to sleep with me because he felt I would be crazier

[midnightmoon05]

That’s good… then don’t go there and find someone who can handle your crazy. 🤪

[Asker]

Ikr…. It did hurt me a lot.. but he’s right

I can’t handle feeling abandoned.

[midnightmoon05]

Focus on learning how to be alone and happy so you don’t get hurt like this.

[Asker]

The problem is I’m always alone… 26 never even had a first kiss… he was the first date I’d been on

[Asker]

I wanted to be with him and it hurt to know that after seeing/meeting me… he didn’t want me and wanted to sabotage the meet up

I was nothing to him but he was everything to me in such a short time

[midnightmoon05]

Hope you meet new friends or join a church group. Work on your self esteem…
Him telling you this is actually a good thing…
You look up attachment styles…

[Asker]

It’s how he said it… being called crazy hurts

[midnightmoon05]

You did not read what I wrote…I would start calling you craze too… because you don’t know what it means to work on yourself esteem…

[spartan55]

Hey, if the shoe fits.