Does my ex still like me because he have things I gifted him still?

[Anonymous]

Hello everyone My ex broke up with me recently but has things I gave him and he have a massage gun he gifted me as well. I gifted him a new black satin bed sheets, 2 colognes he always wanted, a Xbox, new sets of body wash (pack of 6), and I got him an NFL Jersey of his favorite QB. He hadn't given me my stuff, and none of his friends ever came to me to give me such. So I have a question. Why do my ex still have the gifts I have him? I would expect him to want nothing to do with them since we're no contact, and he blocked me on every social, and he told his friend he didn't want anything. Yet, my friends said he likes me or has feelings for me but is not showing emotions because... it's a man thing to not express it. So, why does he have those things still with him if he yk told his guy friends I was nothing serious to him?

[spartan55]

I don't understand your reasoning here. So because you broke up he is supposed to return all those gifts to you?

[Asker]

Well unless it's things can't use like the colognes or body washes. But stuff like the Xbox and jerseys, yes. I'm your EX. Why are u using those stuff anyways.

[spartan55]

That's not how it works. When you give a gift it's not conditional. You don't get it back if the two of you break up. Where did you get this idea?

[spartan55]

Besides, what are you going to do with black satin bedsheets, an Xbox, a custom NFL jersey etc?

[Asker]

Sell it

[spartan55]

Lol... where did you get this idea? You don't ask for, or expect gifts to be returned, EVER. THEY ARE GIFTS.

[DonVitoCorleone]

I don't think so

[Asker]

Elaborate please

[spartan55]

One has nothing to do with the other for starters.