This guy only likes me for my looks not my personality, what should I do?

[kaelah]

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by the way he's my neighbor

[ShellyB]

Do you like him? Are you dating or he is asking you out?

And, how do you know he only likes you for your looks?

I would say what often happens is that a guy notices a girl for her looks but then starts liking other things about her, sometimes everything about her. If you ask older people how they met half the time it starts with the guy saying he noticed how pretty she was and decided to ask her out. Just because it starts there does not mean that is as far as it will go.

JMO good luck!

[kaelah]

so we're not dating, I don't think I like him but at the the same time I don't know he said he likes me and he keeps asking me out but I thunk he only likes me for my looks because the one time I asked him to rate me he said looks 10 out of 10 and personality 10 so I asked why 10 because this was when him and I first met and he said it's great but he does things over and over like asks for nudes and sometimes like trues to touch me him and I do have conversations but only ever about romance and sometimes about life

[ShellyB]

Hmm if not for one thing I might suggest you give it a chance and see where it goes. The one thing that bothers me though is asking for nudes, unless maybe it was like one time half joking but if he’s pestering you for nudes I would not like that personally. JMO!

[DishLady]

Not like him back? You can’t help what a guy does or doesn’t like about you.

[DannyUk2017]

You're too young to think about anything serious... serioisness comes close to 30's, anything before that is just "exploring"... so that's what He does! He just sees the "outside" not the inside... so just move on until you'll find what you looking for, or just change your wear, that will put him off for any "dirty thoughts" and if he really has any "brain cells" he will try to change the approach...

[HawkPerception]

I mean... you know the answer yourself. Improve your personality if you want people to like you for your personality (but don't be fake). Or if you're just looking for fun, then you could always just have fun with the dude. And then the last option is to stop talking with him because he doesn't like your personality

[kaelah]

the thing is he doesn't know my personality I'm really nice but he just wants to talk to me bcs of how I look

[HawkPerception]

Then that's a shallow guy. Avoid guys like that. They don't change by age. As they get older, they just learn how to hide the fact that they only care about looks... better.

[SomothErgai]

Improve your personality? I mean, do you like the guy? If so find out what kind of girl he likes and see if you might tick some of those boxes. Or just have some fun sex for a while before you both move on to people that are more in line with your personality types.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Don't even talk to him at all, then. He only wants sex.

[kaelah]

he wants sex because he always compliments my body and asks for pictures and stuff

[Zayeem]

Then u should go for his money.☺What do u think? Will u both be able to manage a long term relation? i mean till death. if not,, u know what to do. If u both want to just timepass,, ur choice.

[kaelah]

HAHAHA

[blueonblack22]

That’s going to be very common at your age.

Just remember men are different. Not all men are 100% visual but at your age 95%+ of them are. It’s biological.

[DrPepper12]

Don't be friends with benefits. Tell him to fuck off?

[kaelah]

he's my neighbor so I can't be rude bcs I see him a lot

[DrPepper12]

Is this someone you see yourself pursuing a relationship with? If not who cares. Take the compliment. Ignore the irrelevant part.

[Mr_twoface]

Screw him and move on to someone who likes you for you!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Think deeply aboutwhat the outcomes may be depending on the decision that you make

[onedarkcloud]

Say goodbye. Tell him to stay away. If he does not stop advise your parents.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

you better show him that your personality is as good as your looks

[IslaTheWitch]

run, Forrest, run

[7Phoenix7]

😂

[IslaTheWitch]

@7Phoenix7 lmao :D

[DextroShade]

If that's really your picture then he is lying or he's gay.

[kaelah]

what do you mean

[DextroShade]

Never mind, I fucked up and misread your post, oops. Every guy will like you for your looks first, the personality part comes after.

[Anonymous]

sounds like he needs a swift kick in the balls

[Flatmanlewis]

Really only matters if you like him, doesn’t it?

[wiltingrosepetal]

He's not worth your time 🥰

[jjj101010]

Why do u think that?

[jjj101010]

What did he say to u

[kaelah]

he asks for nudes, he compliments me a lot, sometimes tries to touch me but we do talk but it's not meaningful

[jjj101010]

What do u. Lass as meaningful

[kaelah]

wdym

[jjj101010]

Sorry. What do u class as meaningful

[kaelah]

like talking about things that matter all he talks about it wanting to see me and my body and he talks about relationships and stuff I want to talk about life and stories and ask normal questions

[jjj101010]

Well if ur not into it the ditch him

[jjj101010]

Happy to chat if u want

[Mettbltt]

break up with him

[In_Trance]

What do you want to do?

[kaelah]

I wanna be friends and I told him that but he keeps saying he will get what he wants and when we're older he will date me but I can't like ignore him and distant or anything because he's my neighbor

[In_Trance]

Try to stay on good terms but I think you can do better than this guy

[kaelah]

why do you say so

[In_Trance]

He doesn't like your personality now, that's not gonna change

[kaelah]

it's not that he doesn't like it, he doesn't even know it he doesn't want tho

[dolemite58]

Well, is ur personality actually bad?

[kaelah]

no Im really nice he doesn't know me

[dolemite58]

Maybe it’s just a him problem then

[kareka]

He wanna sex 100%

[kaelah]

ahaha okay so what do i do

[kaelah]

and how do you know?

[kareka]

Tbh a lot things u can do but I don't know if u wanted

[Anonymous]

You are just 17do what you wanna do