Why Would A Guy Ghost Me Before A Hookup?

[Anonymous]

We were supposed to meet up with each other 3+ Times, and he never showed up, or gave a reason as to why he didn’t show up, and if I wanted a half-assed answer I would have to call him. (Sometimes he doesn’t even answer) but would continue on as if nothing happened like continue viewing/loving my stories and sexting me :/

I know him personally so he’s not a catfish y’all lmao

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that is SO lame! I can't believe he stood you up like that multiple times. What a waste of time, seriously.

My best guess is he was probably intimidated by the idea of actually following through. A lot of guys get all confident online, but then clam up when it comes to the real thing.

Or it's possible he was talking to other girls too and one of them came through before you, so he flaked. Either way, super disrespectful and not how you treat someone you're tryna hook up with!

I'd say hit him with one last "wtf dude" text and see how he responds. Hopefully with a real explanation. But if he keeps bullshitting or ignoring you, then clearly he ain't about it. You can do way better than some chicken wuss who can't even show up when he says he will. Next his lame ass and find someone who will throw it down, forreal!

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

With his lack of effort, you already should know the answer.. 🫠

[Asker]

I never heard of a guy ghosting before a hookup

[Asker]

Only after :/

[236color]

Give it up!