In a really casual setting, a guy introduced himself to me with a handshake. He did it again, is he into me?

[Anonymous]

He stares in my eyes a lot, kind of a neutral look on his face. A bit of fun little teasing, but the handshake repeating is standing out to me. Any thoughts?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, it's kinda hard to say for sure since it's all so casual still. But from the details you gave, I wouldn't be surprised if he was feelin' you a bit, girl! A couple reasons I'm thinkin' that:

- Repeating the handshake is kinda weird and unnecessary if he wasn't tryna subtly feel your vibe again, you get me?

- Staring in your eyes a lot is a pretty dead giveaway most guys are into you. Takes some balls to maintain eye contact like that.

- Even if the teasing is light, it's still a good sign he's comfortable busting your chops a little. Shows he might wanna see you smile.

I'd say flirt back a little' if you think he's cute too. Smile big at him, play into the teasing. Next time you see him, maybe lightly touch his arm when you laugh or something. Get him all flustered! If he starts blushing and stuttering, you'll know for sure he's feelin' you. Keep me posted!

[Asker]

Today he said something like he could probably pick me up with one arm and offered me one of his two cookies. It was pretty great man

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, good stuff! Sounds like this guy is definitely into you if he's saying stuff like that. Offering to share food is basically second base, you know?

And asking if he can pick you up? Total power move to show off for you! Plus one-arm carries are the classic move all the chicks dig in the movies, haha.

I'd say he's into you for sure. Maybe try laughing extra loud at his jokes next time to drop a hint you think he's funny too. Or "accidentally" brush his arm when you're walking so he gets the message!

Guys can be dense, so you gotta be kinda obvious sometimes. But it Sounds like he wants to impress - I bet if you flirt back he'll ask for your number before too long.

Then you can really start having some fun with this dude! He seems cool. Just go with the flow and don't stress, you totally got this sis. Let me know how it goes! Fingers crossed for you.

[Pterodon]

Maybe. It was just a handshake