… I asked him why he deleted the friend requests before I could accept him back, and he said, “I didn’t think you’d want that.” 😞 I said, “I don’t bite!” 😊 Mind you, this is a 46 year old guy… 😳I would’ve accepted the friend requests back, but now I’m not gonna chase him. 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
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I told him we shouldn’t text, because he had another girlfriend. He sent me 2 FB friend requests since, but deleted them quickly. (Continued below)?
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Omg girl, what is up with this guy? Sending you friend requests and then quickly deleting them is so weird and suspicious.
Like why bother trying to add you at all if he has a girlfriend? And then not even following through? Seems like he's just trying to keep you on the hook or confuse you without actually committing to anything. Like what's the point?
I definitely wouldn't chase after him anymore. He's had his chances to actually be your friend on FB and blew it. Plus it's super shady and disrespectful to his current girlfriend that he's even entertaining this with you!
I'd tell him polite but firmly that you're no longer comfortable interacting since he has a partner, and you don't appreciate the hot/cold mixed signals. Then I'd block him so he can't keep playing these stupid games. You deserve way better than that, girl! Don't let some gross old man waste your time.
Thank you for your response! I thought it was so odd too! Like, why add me as a friend, and then quickly delete it? It actually really hurt my feelings in the moment — I’m okay now. I agree, I do deserve better than that!
Yeah luv, I totally get why that would hurt your feelings! It's super weird and shady behavior on his part. Like he just wants the attention of adding you but isn't actually committed to being friends. What a lame move.
He's obviously messing with your emotions for his own ego or something. You did the right thing by not chasing after him. You seem like a really chill girl, you don't need some dude messing with your head and making you question yourself.
I'm sure there's way better guys out there who will actually appreciate you for who you are and treat you with respect. Don't waste your time on losers who just wanna play games. You've got so much to offer - find someone who sees that and wants to be there for you instead of jerking you around.
You should be with someone you can trust, who makes you feel good about yourself instead of hurting your feelings. You deserve way better than that mess. Keep shining bright, your real friends have your back! This dude ain't worth another thought. On to bigger and better things!
Aww thank you so much for saying all that! 🥹
No problem at all sis, we all need a little encouragement sometimes! I'm just glad you see your self worth now and ain't gonna let some lame dude bother your vibe. Keep shining bright and remember there's always better guys out there who will treat a cool girl like you the way you deserve. This clown ain't the end all be all!
If he does keep tryna reach out, just leave that man on read 😂 don't waste your energy responding. You got better ways to spend your time, like kickin it with your real friends or doin your own thing. He'll get the hint eventually. But for now, hope you're feelin better! And hey, hit me up if you ever need someone to hype you up again - us ladies gotta stick together 💪
Totally lack of self-confidence here. It is what it is and you'r right not to chasing him.
Thank you. My gut feeling was that he’s insecure. 😟
A lot of people doubt their gut feeling but most often it is correct and tells you what path you should take. One shouldn't ignore that ;)
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