Is he just playing games?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been dating this guy for about more than a year he says he loves me wants to be with me then we have sex and then after that I don’t hear from him for a few days he rings me and then asks me how I’m doing and then rings again the following day asking if he wants to meet and when I’m free.. then we have sex spent the night watch movies and chill and then he goes home ignores me and does the same again I know I’m stupid I shouldn’t have let him but honestly I love this man heartedly but then he started being demanding and doing the same shit again sex and then ignores..

well today I told him to fuck off and said to him I’ve lost respect for him if that’s how he treats a human he claims he loves and he says his intention isn’t even like that which okay if it isn’t why does he still think it’s ok to treat another human like that…

he wanted to see me when I come back from holiday in a week I said no honestly I feel disgusted. Am I stupid? there’s no way I can come back from this any advice would be appreciated

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would definitely say your love is being taken advantage of, and you’re being used for sex.

[Asker]

Thank you! I feel so sad about it honestly but then I’m thinking to myself he will never get a love like It because karma will be eating him up for the rest of his life

[Opinion Owner]

I understand you totally, it’s disappointing and hurtful to walk away from someone you really wanted things to work out with. But ultimately you have to do what’s best for you, and know your worth. You deserve a lot more than this, and he’s the one missing out on someone who will really love him.

[Asker]

Exactly I definitely agree with you! Appreciate your comment so much it means a lot to me xx

[Ramzi583]

lol I don't know why this was funny. Yes you’re being 100% used for sex. Leave him

[Asker]

It’s funny cos I’ve been stupid honestly it’s the truth but it has to be said.. but it’s fine I’m a big girl I will get over it. I’m not bothered as much because I know what I bring to the table and what partner I am