Did he lost interest in talking with me?

[Anonymous]

So I met this guy online and we've been talking for like a month, tbh we talked dirty stuff andI told him we need to stop cause I don't wanna lose him I wanna keep our friendships, and told him lets just be platonic friends so I'm not afraid of getting attached , he agreed and we kept talking about other stuff, then he told me that he started to trust me and showed me himself i showed him myself too. He used to be a faster replier but since yesterday I felt like something has changed, he took hours to reply , today too. He used to tell me that he sleeps early around 10pm, yesterday I saw he was online until 01am. Today too he is online and take a long time to reply. I feel like we lost the good vibe in our convos, I don't know what happened, he may found a better friend than me, i am a person who hate late replies and make me lose interest im that person in any kind of relationship.

[laly520]

seems like he was around for the dirty chat, u decided to put an end to that n he immediately lost interest n moved on

[Asker]

He still texts me but not so fast , he even showed me his identity after i told him i want to be platonic

[laly520]

I assume its about time till he stops replying
he is already letting the convo die out so

[Asker]

What should i do? I am crying now (please don't think am weak or dumb but i have feelings and im sensitive) we talk in discord and i have the app only for him i have no one else to talk with

[laly520]

its ok to cry, won't judge u or call u any of that
its also ok not to have anyone else to talk to, there r plenty of amazing people out there to get to know n to talk to, cheer up

[Asker]

He texted now but i won't reply i will reply late.. i think thats what he want.. when i used to reply late he used to double text me and ask if im okay. Im not going to find a guy platonic friend:(

[KrakenAttackin]

"Platonic", that's why you lost him.

[Asker]

No he was okay with that we kept talking , since yesterday i felt something changed

[KrakenAttackin]

Of course he said he was OK with it, but no guy is ok with platonic.

[Asker]

What should i do? I leave in silence?

[spartan55]

Why would he want platonic, and online? BORING.

[Asker]

He said he was okay with it

[spartan55]

Well of course that's what he SAID.