Why does he keep looking at me?

[Anonymous]

First of all, hello. I had a crush on a guy who I've been in the same class with for two years. We had never spoken before. So, it would have been awkward to approach. It would be so obvious. Like, we know each other but we had NEVER talked.

For the past three months or so, we've been making eye contact. At one point, when the desks in the classroom were empty, he came and sat next to me, saying to his friends that it was for a 'change'. Then, a male friend of mine came over, and we talked. When my friend left, the guy I like moved away from me. I was going crazy thinking about all this, delulu you know?

Later on, I realized it wasn't working, so I went and talked to him. I told him that I liked him. But I only said that and apologized. I said I don't expect anything from him. He took it well. And he said he felt things like that in highschool, he said it was normal and told me not to feel bad.

The next day, it was as if nothing had happened. We still didn't talk at all. But he still occasionally looks at me. A few times, he even slightly smiled while looking at me. Or I'm a big delulu. Why is he doing this? I'm really upset. Am I just imagining things?

[Iron_Man]

Do you know how many times these questions have been made? Why is he looking at me? Why is he staring at me? Why don’t you do yourself a favor the next time he does his go knock on his forehead knock knock why are you looking at me and then you’ll get your answer.

[Asker]

Yeah, definitly gonna do that. (!) :/ Sorry but everyone is not same. I can't just go and ask him, its just something which is not me. Thanks for the answer by the way.

[Iron_Man]

Sure 👍

[Nikki1989]

Talk, and talk some more. You will soon see if there is any future.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice, but i dont want to disturb him. I told him that I won't be talking to him about this topic again, so he can be comfortable about coming to classes.

[EmmaMary]

I'm wracking my memory as to where I have read this before!

[Asker]

Actually this is the first time that i'm writing about the situation:(

[EmmaMary]

In that case someone has already beaten you to being in precisely the same situation.

[Asker]

I dont understand, im sorry. I'm kinda new. Is it a problem? And do you have any advices?

[EmmaMary]

There's absolutely no need to apologise... As it's getting extremely late here it might well be my memory playing tricks... So it's me owing you an apology... Sorry.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Billlewis]

Because he likes you.

[Asker]

Why didn't he say anything then? I literally told him that I have feelings for him.

[spartan55]

Why is he doing what? Looking at you?

[Asker]

Yeah, as i asked. Because i dont look at nornal people that much.

[spartan55]

It means he is looking at you. If you want to find out, ask him.

[Asker]

If i had the confidence at asking him, i wouldn't be here. Thank you by the way!

[spartan55]

I don'tvl know what to tell you if you can't even talk to the guy. How do you expect to have any sort of relationship?

[Asker]

I actually talked to him and said that i liked him. And i said, i wouldn't disturb him about this situation again. Although he said that i didn't disturb him, I dont really want to make him uncomfortable. I was just wondering if you have a opinion about why he is looking at me. Thank you, again.

[Arik_jade]

Because he likes you

[Asker]

Why didn't he say anything then? I literally told him that I have feelings for him.

[Arik_jade]

He might be shy

[Asker]

You're feeding my delusions lol
He is not shy by the way. I saw him talking to people so many times. Thank you for the opinions!

[Arik_jade]

Welcome