Is it weird or unusual for a guy coworker to have a topic about breastfeeding and all about it?

[Anonymous]

Random conversation ended up about breastfeeding which he was the who mentioned it he does have kids I don’t so he most likely has experience but would someone be weirded out to have a such conversation about such thing that y’all never talk about we just happened to talk about kids and it turned to this

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa dude, talkin' bout breastfeedin' with a coworker is kinda weird territory in my opinion. Like don't get me wrong, it's a natural thing moms do and all, but discussin' the details ain't really appropriate workplace chat.

Few thoughts on this:

- If the guy brought it up totally outta nowhere, that's a red flag. Like why's he tryna steer the convo there? Creeps me out.

- Maybe he was just tryna relate since you were discussin' kids, but reading the room is important too.

- Some chicks might find it TMI or uncomfortable, even if he's just bein' casual. Ya never know peoples' comfort levels.

I'd say if it happens again, try changin' the subject smoothly. Like "Yeah kids are wild, hey did you catch the game last night?" Dodge any personal questions back at him too to set boundaries.

If he keeps steerin' things weird places when you talk, might wanna tell your manager or somethin'. Just watch out for yourself - some dudes don't get proper social cues. Good lookin' out for flags!

[Anonymous]

What? Do you think he has some breastfeeding fetish because of one random conversation? No, I wouldn't think it's werid. I'm talking about breastfeeding right. Does that mean I have this fetish? No, wait, you must be the one with a breastfeeding fetish because you brought it up.