Is this true or is this guy an actual loser?

[Ninjazzed]

Not even going to blur his name bc idgaf.

Look, guys can get by on jerking off. I don't know any guys who would pick jerking off when a woman was offering. Ain't no guys gonna be "nah I'm good thanks" but yes, lots of guys are turning from dating, but they would be back in a drop of hat if presented with a woman they wanted to be with.

And I clearly wasn't it.

He sounds way too immature to be talking about what "guys are like." He wants someone to feel sorry for him but it's his own perspective on relationships that is the problem.

Oh and he should probably just come out to his friend. Weird fucking tangent about having each other's backs and jerking off.

[SotiCoto]

Sounds like he got his priorities straight.

I mean you're the one crying about it to strangers on the Internet because you didn't get your way... not the other way around.

[Billlewis]

So, he had an opportunity to be intimate with a woman who had indicated this to him, and based on the posted text thread, you believe he declined to have intercourse in favor of masturbating?

[Ninjazzed]

That's the gist of it.

He pretty much didn't want a relationship and blamed it on his mental health instead of his own insecurities.

[Anonymous]

what's the problem here? that he turned down sex from you?

plenty of women turn down sex from men and no one calls them losers

so what exactly makes him a loser then? or this is purely gendered?

[sirderpsalot123]

I'd probably be the same way if my girlfriend and I were to break up.

[sirderpsalot123]

I wouldn't say no to just sex tho

[Sevenpointfive]

unless i'm feeling randy i'm not looking to hook up.

[Sevenpointfive]

but i'd totally jazzed all over your face