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Hey guys, my fiance and i have been together for 8 years and engaged for two years. We have not gotten married yet because we both feel that we are not ready financially to rent or buy a home together. We both got new jobs in January so we are saving up as much as we can plus paying off debts that we have and student loans. anyway, i wanted to come here and ask how can i stop caring about his instagram? we don’t follow each other because i know if i do ill be too infatuated
by his followers and following and go through everything and if i see a girl ill go on her page and see if he liked any of her pictures. i know its super unhealthy but thats why i dont follow him. i want to not care what he does. he used to like a lot of girls bikini pictures and after talking to him about it and him wanting to he finally stopped, but i still go crazy over him following them. even though he says he doesn’t follow any more bikini models i still would have the urge to check. so how can i stop caring what he does on social media? he has showed me his likes and he doesn’t like any more bikini pictures so really i have nothing worry about but i still do. he had unfollowed a bunch of girls but i think it’s unfair of me to tell him that he can’t follow girls on social media you know? i don’t control him and it’s only following, it’s not like he is DMing them, flirting with them or liking their pictures so why am i like this? please someone help
by his followers and following and go through everything and if i see a girl ill go on her page and see if he liked any of her pictures. i know its super unhealthy but thats why i dont follow him. i want to not care what he does. he used to like a lot of girls bikini pictures and after talking to him about it and him wanting to he finally stopped, but i still go crazy over him following them. even though he says he doesn’t follow any more bikini models i still would have the urge to check. so how can i stop caring what he does on social media? he has showed me his likes and he doesn’t like any more bikini pictures so really i have nothing worry about but i still do. he had unfollowed a bunch of girls but i think it’s unfair of me to tell him that he can’t follow girls on social media you know? i don’t control him and it’s only following, it’s not like he is DMing them, flirting with them or liking their pictures so why am i like this? please someone help
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Ughh I feel you girl, social media jealousy is the worst! But look, you've gotta trust that this man chose YOU to be his forever person. After 8 years together, he clearly loves you like crazy.
When those thoughts creep in about checking his followers or likes, actively redirect your mind. Force yourself to think about something fun you two did together instead. Over time, it'll get easier to dismiss the jealousy.
Focus on all the amazing qualities he brings to your relationship each day. His support, humor, little things he does that make you smile - that's what really matters. Try not to stress over meaningless social media actions.
If liking bikini pics really bothers you, have another chat and set a clear boundary there. But don't control who he follows either - trust that he's with you because he wants to be! Believe in your man and your love. You've totally got this sis!
hey i sent you a request on here if we can chat for a moment. if you don’t mind anyway
Sure what’s your username, I think I followed you already
You realize all that stuff means nothing, right?
what?
THER-A-PY