Is he (fitness coach) interested in me?

[Anonymous]

I signed up for a fitness program but is it normal for a fitness coach to ask a woman their marital status and why they aren't dating or is he asking for himself? He's also given me his personal cell phone number too.

I am neurodivergent so I cannot tell if this is flirting for real or not.

[DishLady]

That’s a very common conversation between trainer and trainee to help the trainee feel good about themselves and motivated to exercise.

[Asker]

Is it normal for them to text you everyday? But not talk about fitness? He's making travel plans and telling me what he's doing today.

[moneymagnet24]

Aw he is interested in you..
Time to give blowjob.

[Peridot25]

Dude, shut the fuck up.

[moneymagnet24]

Ah ohk miss Emma Watson

[Peridot25]

You’re annoying as shit 💩

[moneymagnet24]

Thank you miss Angelina jolie 😘

[Peridot25]

Funny you think that’s going to work on me 🙄

[moneymagnet24]

Ofc you're Emma Watson I'm desperate for your attention 😘

[Asker]

Are you projecting a cuckold porn fantasy?

[Danny_dan92]

No. That has nothing to do with your fitness

[Asker]

Oh wow

[Danny_dan92]

Oh wow what?

[Asker]

That it's not normal

[Danny_dan92]

Yes, exactly. It’s not. I worked in the fitness industry, I’m aware of building report with clients, but knowing your martial/relationship status does not help him doing his job in getting you to reach your fitness goals. It’s common sense

[Asker]

It would be common sense if hiring fitness coaches were common in my demographic

[Danny_dan92]

Which is?

And also, I say common sense because again. What does the topic of relationships have anything to do with fitness? Absolutely nothing

[Asker]

I assume it is to build rapport. But I've never had a male fitness coach so I want to know is this a normal procedure.

[spartan55]

Yeah, you and every other woman he 'trains'.

[Asker]

So he's flirting?

[spartan55]

🤦 Is that really a flex considering he is flirting with anyone?

[Asker]

I asked you if he was flirting for real or not. Idgaf if it's with anyone else.

[spartan55]

Yeah, I'm sure you don't. You aren't very bright are you?

[Asker]

Asking a neurodivergent if they're bright means you lack intelligence and integrity yourself. Nice projecting going on there

[Asker]

Albeit - you still haven't answered the question so your DARVO nonsense is not needed if you can't answer a SIMPLE minded question 😉

[spartan55]

Great misuse of popular pop psych buzzwords. 😂 I mean really?
I already answered in my very first opinion. I wrote: "Yeah, you and every other woman he 'trains'.
Did you miss it? Need to read it again? Because I clearly answered your question. Your SIMPLE MINDED question (your words)

[Asker]

Pop psych words existed before Tiktok dear but nice try. You didn't answer the question actually. So try again with that also.

[spartan55]

Where did I say anything about TikTok? You misused every single one of those terms and you're telling ME nice try? Yeah okay.
I didn't answer your question eh? I certainly did, I even broke it down for you: yeah means YES. Yes, he is flirting with you... no it doesn't mean you're special because he does it to every woman he trains. I really don't know how I can simplify it further. 🙄

[Asker]

You should probably break it down instead of getting in your feelings. I can't misuse psychology terms if I'm proficient in these tactics used daily. I know projection when I see it. Knowing the fragile, miniscule male psyche however isn't required in my profession and isn't the utmost importance either.

[spartan55]

Getting in my feelings... uh... no? What is it that I'm projecting here Ms. Freud? The only thing you seem proficient in is bullshit.

[Asker]

Sure thing DARVO. Now I'm bored 😴. Come up with something else 🙄

[spartan55]

You are really stupid. As evidenced by this question. And of course you are a tough talking pink anon. Go crawl back under your rock.

[spartan55]

You can't even say what it is I'm projecting ya retard.

[Asker]

And you are really butthurt by an autistic person who can call you out on your bullsh*t. You're pathetic. Utterly pathetic. A 54 year old arguing with a 20+ something. I'm sure you wish you had women flirting with you. Old red pill hag.

[spartan55]

Yeah, my bullshit. I thought you were 'neuro divergent'? Now you're autistic? What does that have to do with any of this? You aren't calling me out on anything because you got nothin. Butthurt about what? You keep telling me how I feel and you have no clue. Like I said if you think it's a flex that your trainer is flirting with you then you are clueless.

[Asker]

You obviously don't even know what neurodivergent means lol.

[spartan55]

Yeah, that's it. You are the smart one here.

[Asker]

Thank you kindly!