Do guys avoid you if they like you?

[Sumcool]

[SueShe]

The more decent ones would probably avoid you in order to avoid possible conflicts and a rejection.

Those more toxic men would probably address you and attempt to pick you up or do anything to get into your pants since that is always the prime aim at guys as soon as they reach puberty and practically until their very last breath.

I do prefer men that avoid me because I don't have to tell me to leave me in peace or that I am not interested in them.

Unfortunately, those decent men are probably in a minority because they are either shy or don't want to be seen as perverts.

[_Maya_]

Couldn't agree more but for other reasons.

[Sumcool]

@_Maya_ what are your reasons

[SueShe]

@_Maya_ to each her own I guess :-)

[_Maya_]

@Sumcool I am bisexual with a bias for women. So it is easy for me to agree with this opinion. I can easily avoid the toxicity of guys in general. Now I am not saying most are toxic. Far from it. There are a lot of decent guys in the world that I have met. I think what Sue is pointing out is that their intentions whether near term or long term are pretty much the same. I won't sit here and pretend to be a saint but in general my relationships with girls circle around more important things than sex. I am not suggesting you go date girls. That isn't a switch you just turn on or off. I am just making an observation.

[provokeesmokee]

Not my experience, but I don't date emotionally stunted manchikdren.

[ManOnFire]

Girls do that, not guys. I'm sure you have your 1% but most dudes don't do that, in fact they will actually try to talk to the girl. It's girls who are more socially nervous and will avoid dudes they like.

[godfatherfan]

No. This is not 3rd grade. It is real life.

[serious]

Yes that is true to a great extent.

[Wise4myage]

Only shy guys would do that.