My boyfriends married male coworker is hitting on me and I don’t know what to do?

[Anonymous]

Met this guy at my boyfriend’s work party a few months back. He added me on social media which didn’t bother me initially. Now he will text me saying things like “hey beautiful” or that he would do things for me because he likes me and thinks I’m cute and silly.

I haven’t been responding to him lately and have only seen him in person 2 times in the last three months and he avoids me like the plague when we are in person. I haven’t told my boyfriend yet because I’m afraid of how he will react. Advice on what to say or do?

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+1 y

This also JUST started in the last two weeks.

[Altheavas]

You’re a woman, some men will try anyway even when you’re married!
He is not forcing you to reciprocate, if the friend hasn’t say anything directly just avoid it, or leave it in oblivion, just act like you don’t understand. Unless you say something, then you can tell him whatever u wish to keep him in his lane. Tell your partner too, hopefully he is mature enough to help you out…!

[avery58]

I just wouldn't have even added him at all if I was you. Weird move on his part from the start.

Just block him. He's weird AF.

[Loner111]

See... This is why so many women think all men are like this. Guys like this piss me off so much because they make us look like we're all like that and we are not.

Make an example out of him.

Rat his ass out.

[ProbablyClueless]

Why do you have to say or do anything? If the guy avoids you like the plague in person, that sounds like things won't be going anywhere.

[DishLady]

Come clean with your boyfriend and shut it down with this guy.

[slatyb]

You don't have to do anything, as you won't see him again. Block him and forget it.

[Luckycharms12]

Ya he a piece of shit. Rather not talk to him tell your boyfriend.

[spartan55]

Not telling your boyfriend is a bad move.

[Danny_dan92]

Tell him to stop? I don't know. Just an idea