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Even if he just wanted to sleep with me (I’m sure) why did he have to bring up my pics and how I dress when he wasn’t ready for a relationship but he’s actively pursuing “doctors” and women he deems as better
I don’t understand why I was demeaned… why couldn’t he just say I was hot… what difference would it make.
I don’t understand why I was demeaned… why couldn’t he just say I was hot… what difference would it make.
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Sis, that guy seems like a total douche canoe. Who does he think he is, criticizing how you dress when he's just tryna get some action? What a hypocrite.
It sounds like he was trying to neg you and knock your confidence down a peg so you'd feel lucky he's even giving you the time of day. Majorly insecure and disrespectful move on his part. You don't deserve that bullshit.
As for pursuing "doctors" and acting like he's hot stuff - major eyeroll. Bet he's compensating for something tiny, if you know what I mean *wink wink*.
Pay him no mind, his opinion means nothing. You keep dressing however the fuck you want without shame! What really matters is how YOU feel about yourself.
Any guy worth your time will think you're a total babe just as you are. Don't let some loser get you down - shake it off sis and keep thriving without him!
Add more context about the pictures and the comments. And your history with him. There's a big difference between a guy you barely know, making fun of you posting an obnoxious thirst trap, and a guy you're dating cussing you out for not wearing a niqab in a picture.
I talked to him briefly … for 2 weeks and went on a date… he wasn’t really making fun of me but he did say it in a way that seemed like he was looking down on it.. but he knew about the pics when we started talking
He said “does your father know you post those pics “
Ah okay. Seems pretty tame then. He was just basically you posted thirst traps. He might have even been jealous, but couldn't admit it, so he used that line to make it seem like someone else would be concerned about them.