Is it wrong to try to purposefully sabotage a man’s potential relationship for rejecting me? should I tell her?

[Anonymous]

He devalued and discarded me … he didn’t think I was good enough… now he’s trying to get with doctors ect…but I feel like he was a sexual predator who lied to me to get in my pants…

Not to mention that I felt drowsy after our date… bc I was nervous. I took sips but ended up drinking the cold tea afterwards and I felt unnaturally sleepy

I also believe he was a predatory bc he wasn’t trying to tell me anything about himself and he wasn’t telling me his real name…

But he made me believe he was genuine and he caused a lot of emotional distress… I really wish I could sue him.

[meepmeeperton]

Sounds like you made stupid decisions and fell for some idiot guy who doesn't care about you... now you're trying to make it seem like some kind of assault or he put something in your drink? Go ahead and spread whatever rumor you want, everyone probably thinks you're mental LOL.

[Asker]

What can I say. I do what I do best.

[Asker]

Who said I wasn’t a victim of SA? You’re assuming so much.

Again, idgaf. Men need to stop being deceiving.

[meepmeeperton]

Your bad decision was sleeping with a guy you went on one date with and talked to for two weeks... now you're salty about it because you thought he would be your knight in shining armor that sweeps you off your feet and marries you. Did he really "trick" you, or were you completely naive about your expectations?

Face it, most guys aren't some kind of expert players. Women create a fantasy expectation for him, and are so emotionally unstable that when he fails to fulfill that expectation it feels like some kind of assault. Sorry but getting drugged doesn't make you slightly drowsy, you would have blacked out. You did not get assaulted. It's not that men don't want you because you aren't pretty or something, it's because you're crazy and unstable hahaha.

[Asker]

I never slept with him

[meepmeeperton]

Then how exactly could he be a sexual predator lady?

[Asker]

Because you’re deceiving someone by pretending that you care and by pretending that you want something serious when you don’t.. and I had said that I wasn’t interested in any of that

[meepmeeperton]

The how exactly did were you a possible victim of SA…

[Asker]

you're THE ONE SAYING SA

[meepmeeperton]

“Who said I wasn’t a victim of SA?” -you…

[Asker]

I’m getting a headache now thanks

[spartan55]

@meepmeeperton
She's a delight isn't she? She will be back, she has been posting about this guy for over six months. It's like a car crash.

[meepmeeperton]

@spartan55 LOL jeez…. yeah she seems like a real bundle of joy.

[meepmeeperton]

I’m sure you’d love to see that.

[Asker]

Nah I haven’t slept with anyone

But all that matters is that I’m going to let him know that I believe he’s a sexual predator and I was coerced into having sex.. yes I don’t have much evidence but it’s about letting him know who he really is.

It’s not right to try and get sex from me then discard me because I felt that’s all he wanted

[meepmeeperton]

So he’s a sexual predator for wanting sex, but you didn’t actually have sex? Sounds like you’re just an obsessed weirdo. You’re probably dick deprived which is why you’re being hysterical LOL.

[Asker]

Well he did say that he didn’t want to sleep with me because he was scared I’ll get crazier.

I just hate him. I hate how he made me feel about myself most importantly. I don’t think you guys are understanding that. You’re just calling me unstable and that’s not fair. Especially when I told him that I wasn’t looking for either.

I’m not dick deprived. No such thing.

[meepmeeperton]

There is such thing and you’re a perfect example of it. You should move on and find a nice guy who will actually have sex with you and maybe then you’ll calm down.

[Asker]

No. I want to remain a virgin. I was fooled and hurt badly. Never again.

[meepmeeperton]

Alright, have fun being a bitter cat lady ranting about sexual assault that never happened to you for the rest of your days then!

[Asker]

I didn’t say I was sexually assaulted I said I was deceived into trying to have sex.

[spartan55]

@asker
And how exactly were you deceived again?

[Asker]

How Many times do I have to tell you

[meepmeeperton]

@spartan55 LOL, she won’t explain a single thing and says “how many times do I have to explain.” Nothing in her story adds ups.

[spartan55]

@meepmeeperton
I know dude. And she won't stop doubling down no matter what.

[spartan55]

Don't know what that is.

[Asker]

Stop it

[Asker]

Do you guys want to read my message I’m going to send him. I need tips

[spartan55]

I want to know how he deceived you.

[Asker]

He deceived me by pretending to want something more and when he knew he didn’t and he wanted sex. I set a clear boundary and he tried to push that boundary through manipulation

[meepmeeperton]

What messages are you gonna send him LOL.

[spartan55]

Notice how she doesn't mention HER conduct during this whole saga. Why? Because that is why the dude bailed, simple.

[spartan55]

That worked about as well as I expected.

[Asker]

It’s been 3 hours but ik it got to him. I’m sure he’s crying that I called him gay/ closeted and a predator. 😉🌈

[spartan55]

I'm sure he doesn't gaf.

[spartan55]

Yeah, that's right. I'm very in tune with the gay man...😂 😂

[Asker]

Yes, sparty. 🌈❤️🌈🥺🌈❤️

Hopefully he’s okay.

[Asker]

Snitch’s get stitches

[spartan55]

I'm sure he appreciated you circling back to bitch at him yet again.

[spartan55]

All that just because he wasn't interested... sue him... you are out of your mind. And now your fable adds another layer of bullshit implying that he spiked your drink...😂 😂 😂 😂

[Asker]

He possibly did. I said what I said

He wasn’t interested because he didn’t get what he wanted.

[spartan55]

Either that or your personality.

[Asker]

Because I’m shy? That’s not a good reason to mistreat someone or make them feel less than

[spartan55]

Not because you're shy. Convenient excuse though.

[spartan55]

Besides, you don't even know who 'she' is... so just stop already. You aren't sabotaging shit.

[Asker]

And not to mention he’s DL

[spartan55]

No he's not, just like he didn't spike your drink either.

[Asker]

He is DL

So you watch trans porn?

[Asker]

Thought so

[spartan55]

Doesn't mean you are on the DL.

[spartan55]

Says who? You?

[Asker]

No straight man looks at chicks with dicks

[spartan55]

Whatever you say.

[Asker]

You must watch it too

Ewwwwww

[spartan55]

Yeah, like you would know

[Asker]

🥺🥺🥺

[DishLady]

Yeah it’s wrong… it’s very childish. Leave the guy alone and go get your own life….

[Asker]

He wants to treat me like shit I’ll do the same back.

[ProbablyClueless]

That would be extremely wrong. I'm sorry that you got rejected, but that's not a valid excuse to hurt someone else.

[Asker]

I agree, that’s why you shouldn’t hurt people first.

[Asker]

I deserve to be happy too.

[Finchie40]

Just be thankful you didn’t fall for his shit and sleep with him , just move on and find someone that wants to be with you

[Asker]

Right, no one wants to be with me. They just want to sleep with me. They don’t ever see me as good enough or pretty enough.

[Finchie40]

Don’t sell yourself short , dating and relationships today aren’t the same like it used to to be , most of us experience bad seeds before finding a good one , so don’t give up , he is out there

[Anonymous]

He did a bunch of things which you describe as bad but you pulled down your panties for him, right? Do you take responsibility for ANYTHING that happened to you?

[Asker]

Not accurate

[Opinion Owner]

"he was a sexual predator who lied to me to get in my pants…" That sentence means that you had sex with him. Maybe you didn't actually have sex with him but all I know is what you said.

[b_lova]

How many dates did you go on with him? How did you know him before the date?

[Asker]

1 date

Talked for 2 weeks

[b_lova]

He did nothing wrong. He got to know you well enough to decide you were not the one he wanted to pursue a relationship with. And if your question and statements here are an example of what he was exposed to I can understand why.

You have over thought and jumped to conclusions that most men want to avoid because we don't want to end up in jail. And you're now considering retaliation for his decision to not pursue a relationship with you.

[Asker]

Noo you can reject someone without being an asshole.

But I was serious about being deceived to have sex when I had already told him that I didn’t.

[b_lova]

You said you didn't have sex. Just because you feel like he tried to convince you doesn't mean he deceived you. There are no laws against a guy trying to be charming.

Unfortunately there are no laws against being an asshole or even a bad person. And you have no proof he did anything to your drink. If you don't have some proof, your assumptions will get you no where in the court of law.

If you really feel like he treated you so bad then count yourself lucky you didn't get more involved with him and move in with your life. Trying to warn someone when nothing actually happened will make you look like a spiteful rejected woman.

[Asker]

Whatever you say

[b_lova]

You are not going to like what I am about to say, but I want you to know that I'm saying this in hopes that you will take a good introspective look to evaluate whether it's true. Reading through the comments I can see why you are alone. You seem to be very vindictive and revengeful. The people you know probably won't tell you because they fear you and that's not a good thing.

I hope you will think over what I said and that you make changes as you see fit. I will be praying for you.

[Asker]

Pray for me for what exactly? Oh pleaseee

[Asker]

🙄🙄

[SotiCoto]

Ask yourself this: What do you gain from it?
Is it worthwhile to focus your time and effort on a guy who rejected you?

[Asker]

I need to get my lick back

[spartan55]

Six months or more and you still haven't let it go. I think we've seen this movie before too.

[Asker]

What movie?

You love drama but can’t message me back

[spartan55]

I love drama... that's rich coming from you.

[Asker]

You do… you’re so negative towards me

[spartan55]

Same old movie... your teacher, the fireman guy... ring a bell?

[Asker]

No actually IT doesn't

[Asker]

You keep tabs on my love life

[spartan55]

I'm sure you don't remember. It's not a matter of keeping up with shit. It's the hours I've spent trying to help you.

[Dongie]

You have proof of that? Sure warn. If not eeeh.. better watch out. That could be slander and if put in writing liable.

[Asker]

I won’t get in trouble for slander if there’s no proof that it came from me.

Ik I don’t have any proof of it because I never got the tea tested… I guess I don’t have enough evidence….

On top of him calling me unstable… he probably has more shit on me ….

[Dongie]

Oh, a Bill Cosby

[Dongie]

You could befriend her a moment and mention it as you know of the suspicion.

[Asker]

Noo that’s too creepy

Hopefully I heal from this… I just feel like I want him to fix something that I feel he made worse and I’m trying my best to just move on bc it’s life but for me I just find it hard

[Asker]

I’ll just send it to him directly

[DrPepper12]

Yes it's wrong. You sound very angry but seem to have a lot of speculation.

[Asker]

Yeah I’m a bit bitter

[noohair]

Did you check with the police to see if he has a record.

[Asker]

I checked his name etc he doesn’t but he also wasn’t trying to tell me his real name at all… like he was lying to me a lot

[KrakenAttackin]

I hope this is a troll.

[Asker]

No unfortunately

[Anonymous]

Obviously that would be wrong

[jahaims]

You are weak minded