I never wanted this shit lol I thought he was a genuine guy who did care … guess he wasn’t attracted to me or felt he can do better after the date and kind of ghosted and then gave some closure. After a month I feel embarrassed and ashamed
he made me feel good enough in the beginning and yes he showed interest first
I def felt unimportant and disposed but I appreciate him finally calling.
But I wish he knew I felt like that. Not that it would matter and it’s not his fault I just wanted him to know
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Of course that’s wrong. You want someone to live the rest of their life thinking them rejecting you was the reason you offer yourself.
Yeah cuz why do I have to bear the pain by myself
He’s not going to give a damn.
I can’t tell if you’re serious but if you are, you should go to therapy before making a stupid & permanent decision that will not only cripple this guy but your family over something as trivial as being rejected by someone you weren’t even dating. You could get him back by getting with a guy way better than him that actually loves you… and you get to be alive.
But I don’t want to be
Sounds like a good plan. I’m just wishful Thinking
I’m not that pathetic.
Good. Not only is deleting yourself over said person in this scenario incredibly selfish, it’s just stupid. Life goes on. Who gives a shit if you got rejected. Now if you were married for years with a family & walked in on him cheating that’s a whole different situation but even then that doesn’t count as grounds to remove yourself from the world.
You can, but that's usually seen as manipulative, like you say that for him to feel sorry for you and date you.
Why would he date me after that LOL 😂 I doubt he would but I shouldn’t have to carry these feelings by myself
He could care less if I died. But not just him any man I dealt with.. when they’re done with me they’re done.