Should I tell a girl in my friend circle that the guy she is currently dating tried to force himself on me in 2021?

[Anonymous]

She's not actually my friend but she's in my circle so we know each other well and get along socially.

She recently started dating this guy who tried to force himself on me during end of second lockdown in 2021. I didn't make a big issue out of it because he didn't cross any line he was just been to touchy with me that day when we hanging out together where he even placed his hand on my butt and asked if I want to kiss him.

Should I share this with her? Or should I just mind my own business?

[Kaneki05]

I was about to say of course what the hell she don't deserve to be with a dangerous guy. But then you explained and me here just like wut. I got very different implications when you said in your question title that he tried to force you.

That wasn't trying to force you, that was making a move and you rejecting him granted a bold move but a move and if he been touchy without you rejecting his moves before you wasn't giving him any notion to not try.

So no it's fine, if that guy did that then you said no and he backed off that's okay.

[DannyUk2017]

In this days is better to Just mind your business. Because you'll become a troll and get lots of hate because you "made famous" a person that you didn't know fully. So is better for her to find out. Otherwise you'll be to "blame" if "she likes it", so is better to leave it be. No person is the same as You and Viceversa.

[DannyUk2017]

Thank you for the MHO

[RoseySarah]

Hm hard choice I'd say have your friend do it.

Would mean way more coming from someone else then you!

If you have not told any friends in the circle we'll let it slip and let gossip handle it for you!

My sister has a broken radar and it means way more hearing bad stuff not from me but over heard by her friend!

[HaleyCatgirl]

That depends if you're a good person and care about the well-being of others if not then don't do it if you are then do it pretty cut and dry if you ask me

[madhatters4]

it sounds like he made a move on you rather than force himself on you... is this correct?

i think since she is dating the guy it is more or less a non-issue. perhaps if you were in the same room when he came on to her the first time, maybe then you just walk up and mention how he came on to you but I don't really know what value it would be telling a girl that her boyfriend once grabbed your butt and asked if you wanted to kiss him

[DextroShade]

Touching you and asking to kiss you wasn't forcing himself on you unless he persisted after you told him "No." Now you are considering slandering him as a rapist to girl you don't even know. I will unequivocally state that if you do this, you are a bad person!

[Anonymous]

so did he force himself on you? or he didn't cross any line he was just been to touchy? you contradict your statement immediately lmao. you make is sound like rape then say he was just touchy, and you didn't "make a big deal" you're trash and you want to start shit clearly, and im shocked you have any friends.

[DextroShade]

This is some Amber Heard shit.

[RasmusAiken]

Don't mention it. What actual good would come out of that disclosure?

[starfoxxy64]

YES like as soon as you are able and both available.

[Brady]

If u didn't like his hands on your butt u should hav told him. If he didn't listn then he is a red flag. U don't know if he's a red flag so I don't know if u should tell your friend.

[Bad_milk]

You should tell her and let her decide what she does next. Just good information to have

[Anonymous]

I'd leave it

It oesn't sound like you went to the Police or just sorted the problem out

[sheikalana]

No, just forget about it.

[Cute_potato01]

Restraining order