My roommate, and now good friend, was involved in a fling last summer for a good 2 or 3 months. I met both her and him after they had ended it, he liked her, but she did not have feelings for him. They are still friends. That was about a year ago and she is now in a serious relationship with another man (they are moving in together this fall). My other friend, the man she had a fling with, is interested in me. There has always been some tension between us, I think that he is a great guy, and I'd love to go on a date with him but not if it will jeopardize my friendship with her. Can I date him? How do I approach the situation with her? Or should I just leave this one alone, because I don't want to disrespect her, she is a very dear friend of mine.
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Do not listen to the girl who called you a bitch, she's being unreasonable.
Actually I think you should date him, because you like him and your friend didn't have feelings for him and now is with another man.
Of course, you need to ask her if she's okay with it. Chicks before d***s, always.
I firmly believe that no girl should ever mess around with her best friends' ex, BUT if she had no real feelings for him, and now is happy with someone else, why not?
Do ask her, though. That's a priority.0