It wasn't a relationship but we saw each other for and then again he seemed like he wanted to go out again. He was giving compliments too but it all vaniahed when i didn't ask him out via texts. He became passive aggressive again.
On our first ever date I noticed that while he was sharing bits and pieces about himself, I was the only one asking him more questions. He wasn't asking me many questions. He also checked me out from head to toe
He had asked me where I live and told him but when I asked him, he dodged it at first and the 2nd time, he mentioned Richmond.
He said the break shall be in a different city (I told him my place is a student hall where I don't like living) so I'm assuming he didn't want to take me to his house and he knew he can't come to mine hence going to a different place?
He wanted a kiss but I didn't kiss him as I felt it was too early.
The 2nd date was awful. When I asked him about his recent plans, he kept saying he has friends inviting him for lunches and dinners and another friend is coming to visit him from Paris. So basically, all the "future plans" were gone.
He was very cold with me and he even said he doesn't want to keep me waiting for long with him. He was clearly not interested in talking to me and I noticed all he did was check me out and give forced, irritated replies.
At one point, he even stopped talking and started watching other people around us. He was also looking at my legs instead of being interested in our conversation smh.
Then a group of girls wearing tiny shorts came in and he pointed towards 1 girl whose ass cheeks were visible. He said he saw her on the tube and how he's not a creep but it was just a coincidence..
He also said he went on lunch with his female friend a day before and how he will be going over to another female friends house after our date.
When we parted, he gave me a hug but after that, he stopped meeting me and replying to me.
What is his issue?
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He lost intrest seems pretty simple
He didn't lose interest. Im asking if he only wanted sex?
How did he not?
told me on the 1st date that he wanted a "1 or 2 week break" with me (hinting indirectly to me) to another city. He said we can stay at his friends cottage.
I said ok but we didn't kiss on the 1st date (he wanted to but I wasn't sure as he never mentioned what he wanted, whether he was looking for a relationship or casual).
He never texted me on his own and after 2 days I texted him. We met up again but he changed the whole plan, saying he's going to hang out with his friend who is visiting him.
Sounds like thats losing intrest
I saw him meeting other girls at bars.
I also noticed that each time i asked him what's going on, all he gives me is a vague reply that he is "busy". He never mentions what he does, where he goes etc. But he keeps asking me everything about my life and if I'm reluctant or inaudible, he will touch his ears and be like I can't hear you.
I know he's not busy because he is on his phone all day, online every 5 mins wnd he goes out every evening as well. He told me himself on one of our dates that he's been going out a lot and drinking a lot. Amd how he never gets any work done.
He also is online at odd hours of the night like 12.45 am, 3.45 am or on many days, he's offline the whole evening/night.
Even on our dates, he never seems interested in talking or knowing about me but I ve caught him looking at my chest, legs etc. He also won't text me on his own. NEVER.
Is he a fuckboy?
Sure
What sure?
Sounds like he is
Yes, it sure seems like that to me.