I have an issue with my boyfriend and his female coworker. My boyfriend is the girls bff type. He will listen to girls and give them opinions. If a girl says anything out of place or tries anything he has told me everything about what has happen and the what he said or did to fix it. No sexual things have came out of this. Here is my problem. There is this female co worker that he has to work with all night (they are partners) any way tonight he told her that she was trying to get a little to close and they needed to slow the friendship down so to speak this female is a princess barbie doll type. She therefore went to work and cried and made a scene. They had to sit down and he had to tell her that nothing would ever happen between them. She said that if she knew that me and my boyfriend got into it then she would try her best to get him. She wanted him and that was that. She has flung her self at him before but he has shot her down time after time again which really made her mad and more whiny. However, he was on the phone with me and was telling me everything naturally I got really angry and said something I shouldn't have like let her keep it up and I'm going to have someone "get" her. I never meant it and we kinda got into it for a second but then got it all straighten out. She overheard the conversation (she was listening in around the corner) and said that the videos in the room she could get. She went to their boss and told them what happen also said OK now its game on. For the past several hours she has continually pushed herself at him, even went as far as showing him her boobs and said you know you want these. They had to go to her house which is right around they work (they mainly work on the road riding around in a car) to sit and fill out reports. He said she took his cigs and told him that they were upstairs on her bed and the only way for him to get them was if he would cuddle with her. he said no but was able to get the cigs. he then started to work on the reports on the couch and dozed off. he woke up to find her butt on him and snuggle up against him. he told her once again nicely (anytime he has gotten mean with her she starts crying) to get off. she is doing all this cause she heard what I said and what's to p*ss me off. I had called him several times in a row knowing how he is about falling asleep and wanted to make sure he was up because he has to go to class and do a test in a couple of hours. she went through his phone and his text messages laughing that I had called over and over again. she then proceeds to tell him that she will be taking him to school, picking him up taking him to his other job and sitting there while he works. he said OK enough is enough. she made the statement, no its enough when I say its enough. she is 25 and I'm not a fighter he thinks it'll end once she knows I'm not mad. but really enough is enough. what would you do in this situation or how should I handle this. I know my boyfriend won't cheat. or do anything.
several text messages have been sent to me from her today. I have responded very formal and not mad. but she said tonight that its game on by texting him . I just don't know how to deal with this.
this were nasty hateful messages