It's up to you whether you tell him about it as it is personal and you just started dating. However, you really should reconsider this situation with your ex if you want things to go smoothly with this new guy. You can claim you're "just friends" all you want, and how you broke up 5 years ago, but bottom line you were pregnant with his child recently. Which means you slept with him, which means you're not "just friends" and that you are still involved in a more intimate manner. No guy will believe the friends line if you were still having sex. If he finds out from someone else, he may not be mad about the pregnancy, but he will be mad if you're still having frequent contact with your ex.
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I don't think you should tell him about it, it didn't have anything to do with him. If he asked you then yes tell him the truth, personally I think being friends with an ex who is still in love with you is worse then anything you mentioned. And you having a fling with him is something else that happned before you dated, so unless asked then I wouldn't say anything, then he will be suspicious of you and your ex being friends and that will cause a lot of conflict.
Not yet, he is, after all, your "new" boyfriend and that's it. If he becomes more important to you later on, than tell him then. But you do not need to tell your personal business to everyone that you start dating.
I would say it's pretty important to say. I don't want to assume anything, but chances are this still weighs heavy on you. Guys sometimes have this bad habit of saying stupid stuff, he might say something to upset you about the situation. He doesn't want to upset you, you don't want to get upset.
Knowing this he'll be much more careful.
That said, I don't think it's something you should say right away. You can wait a while until you're more comfortable, but I think it's very important to say before you try for another kid.
yes I think this is something he should know and he should also know you sleep with and ex that's still a friend for sure
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