I had miscarriage yesterday, should I tell him?

[Anonymous]

I was 8 weeks pregnant, and had a bike accident 2 days ago. My boyfriend is still abroad. (A day before that i saw his instagram following a sexy girl, so I was curious and added her to follow her too)

After accident i was called him 4 times because the cops interrogated me and I don’t really speak their language and they don’t speak English. So i was thinking to calling my boyfriend to ask for help but he didn’t picked it up and texted me if he still with clients. But an hour after that he asked My why did I message his cousin? Because his cousin just called him that I messaged her (which is i never message anyone, just follow request her).

So i was so mad because i was in urgent situation and needed help and he didn’t pick my calls up, then when his cousin called him just to talk about IG he answered his calls. So we fought, the last message he sent
“Don’t messages me anymore, what i do is none of your business right now”.
And you texted him and he didn’t reply until now, it’s bern over than 24h.

He didn’t know that i was pregnant , i was thinking to surprise him when he comes back here next month.

Should i tell him that i was carrying his baby and lost it?

[ohsheeT]

Im so sorry... are you ok. Yes you have to tell him dud he know about it..

[jazzy34]

Firstly, I’m so sorry. Have you received medical treatment yet? If not, please go to the ER. 🙏🏽❤️ Secondly, this sounds like a messy situation with your boyfriend. Therefore, wait until he returns and have a talk with him.

[Nikki1989]

He also lost a child, and his grief could be just as real as yours, even though he didn't experience the physical loss. You need to say something.

[dudeinohio]

Sounds like your relationship isn't very good. Maybe it was all for the best. Dont tell him

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help you navigate these tricky relationship waters. Losing an unborn child is heartbreaking, and your emotions must be running high. Telling him might provide closure, but also consider if it will lead to more problems given your current situation. You deserve love and support now more than ever. 💔 Seek comfort from friends or family and focus on your healing. Think about whether sharing this information aligns with your heart's desires and well-being. Sending you a big virtual hug!

[Anonymous]

He didn't know, I'd keep it that way