What’s up with this (married guy) he be giving me mixed signals I mean like we friends but one day he will talk the next day it’s like I’m invisible?

[Anonymous]

And I know I shouldn’t worry about it bc he is married but I’m just trying to understand his behaviour like I will come in One day and be may not even say good morning or say a word to me, which makes me wonder did I do something wrong you know like is he mad and than next day he will be all good morningg than what you got for lunch? And just start a conversation with me or small chat what’s wrong with this man? I’m confused

[ChicoFromThe305]

Did it ever come to mind that maybe he's being sneaky around his wife so it gives this odd pattern in behavior, sounds like your hopes are very high for something that has a slim choice of working out which will most likely only end in a waste of time.

[TommyMountainFigure]

If you're friends and some days he's talkative but other days not, isn't that just like everyone? Also, I fail to see the relevance of him being married!

[Asker]

What you mean you fail to see the relevance of him being married? And I mean friends still greet each other and at least say a word or two not just completely ignore you one day

[TommyMountainFigure]

Your grievance is because he says good morning to you some days, and not others.. Whether he's married or not,, that would STILL be your grievance, no?

So I reiterate, what's the point of mentioning he is married?

[Asker]

Bc there are other workers who greet me good morning every single day

[Asker]

Day don’t be switching mood on me

[spartan55]

@asker So I guess he isn't like your other coworkers in that regard. I've had moody fucks at every job I've ever had. It's hardly unusual.

[spartan55]

So, for some reason you think his entire world revolves around YOU...🙄. He has other shit going on besides you so don't take it personal. Besides he is married, don't ignore that for an ego boost.

[jahaims]

Don't talk to married guys that give mixed signals. Pretty simple

[Asker]

lol wym don’t talk why do they do stuff like that tho

[jahaims]

They are weak. They want to cheat or, at the very least, are seeking validation because they are insecure.

[Asker]

So one day they be giving attention talking next pretend like you don’t exist I guess he knows what he doing is wrong and so when he ignores me that’s when he feels the guilt right

[DishLady]

Stay away from him. He’s fishing.

[Asker]

Wym his fishing? And how do I stay away if some days like I said he will try getting my attention and talking to me others ignore like how do I keep it that way where I don’t give him some attention

[DishLady]

Just keep busy. Just bc a guy is paying attention to you doesn’t mean you have to pay attention to him.

[Asker]

So may I ask why he has days where he will pay attention and talk other days ignore what’s the reason behind that behaviour

[DishLady]

That is CALLED fishing. 🙄🙄🙄🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️