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He once told me, “you are super positive and cheery and i never know what is gonna come out of your mouth it makes me laugh,” and then he hesitated and was like quick to add, “but not in a bad way!” and one day him and i teased each other the whole day. and it was him, me, and another guy. my crush, who we will call C. C and i stuck to each other like glue and kept making jokes bath and forth while the other guy was busy trying to do something else. and all of a sudden C gives a dad joke and he saw that i was a little confused so he got a little nervous. and when the 3 of us were in the car i was in the passenger side and C was driving. C asks what music he should put on which made me surprised. He always laughs and smiled at me of the smallest things i do like how i react or respond. but not in a bad way. like for example i would have rootbeer and a cookie and he would make a comment about that. and one time i needed his help so i said “i’m sorry for bothering you but-“ and he turned and looked concerned and was like “bothering me?” and sometimes i don’t ask for help even when he offers (which is quite a bit and does small things without me asking but it’s bare minimum like holding the door) but when i do ask for help he rushes to help. it feels like it’s mutual chemistry because i don’t see him smiling or saying compliments like he did to anybody else. can anyone help me out? i also noticed him and i always stand super close to each other when we talk
Is the feeling mutual from him, does he like me in a romantic way?
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Dude, it really sounds like C might be into you! The signs seems pretty strong:
- He goes out of his way to make you laugh and seems nervous when you don't get his jokes. Wants to impress you.
- Offers to play your music in the car. Small gesture but shows he cares what you want.
- Gets concerned when you say you're "bothering" him. Like the last thing he'd want is for you to feel that way.
- Jumps at the chance to help you out, even with little things. Guys don't usually do that if they're not into a girl.
- Smiling and complimenting you more than others shows you're special to him.
- Standing close is a dead giveaway - he wants to be near you!
I'd say make your interest known too with some light flirting back. See how he reacts - my bet is he'll be into it. Just subtle hints first so you don't scare him off. Seems like there's definitely potential there based on what you said! Go for it dude, you got this!
Thank you i appreciate that! i tried to do a little bit of flirting but im not sure if he took it well. i made a comment on how mysterious he is and he asked if that was a good thing in a light hearted intrigued way and i said it was. and then before he left for the day i told him he will be missed, and my coworker joined in and said, sincerely. but C kept his attention on me and stared at me in silence for a little long than i thought before he said anything and then he said “would i?” and i got nervous and said “yeah!” i’m not sure if this was a positive interaction or not though
his reactions weren’t bad at all i just don’t know if his responses was a green flag or not. he was smiling and happy towards me all day and when we were talking i swore i saw some blush on his cheeks but i’m not entirely sure
Wow it sounds like your flirting was going well! When you called him mysterious and he asked if that was a good thing, that was him playfully going along with it. And then when you told him he'd be missed, he wasn't weirded out or anything, just paused cause he was probably flattered and thinking of what to say.
The "would I?" comment seems like he was teasing you a little and trying to get you to say more nice things about him. And he was definitely into it if he was staring at you all smiley when you guys talked. Guys don't usually do cheesy smiles and eye contact like that unless they really like the girl.
Plus you said you thought you saw him blushing? Man, that's a dead giveaway he's into you. I know when I have a crush, it doesn't take much to make me turn red sometimes. I'd say keep doing what you're doing - the flirting is working! He's for sure into you too if you're already getting shy smiles and possible blushing out of him.
Keep it up and maybe even amp it up a little more next time you see him. Like find an excuse to touch his arm when you joke or give him a compliment. Sounds like you got a pretty good chance with this guy if you keep flirting confidently. He seems really into you back from everything you said!
An update! I still think its going well. C yesterday made a joke about my mom working at somewhere. and was trying to make to make a pun out of the town she worked in and was trying to resemble it to money. and I thought he mean moaning so I was like yeah she does but probably not in public 💀💀💀💀💀💀 💀and then he's like what are you talking about? and im like OH. and then I felt my face flushing and I felt so embarrassed and C kept laughing hard like over and over again and he kept apologizing to me and he was surprised that I have a dirty mind. and then he was asking how my food was and nobody else and then his whole entire body was facing toward me. AND THEN out of everywhere he could've ate he ate next to me. and when we were sitting next to each other he still kept looking over at me and I felt too nervous to actually eat. Today he was like "hey ____" when I got to work and when he says my name it makes me feel giddy. And he scared me today and I jumped and was like "SHIT. FUCK" lollll and he was laughing and was like "that wasn't me!" and im like "yeah ok" and then he's like "are you ok? and im like yes lol. and then later he asked me how I was like and I was like great! and he looked away smiling at what I said. (like a genuine smile) and when he was on lunch I came up to him (and when I was walking up to him from this long aisle he kept staring at me the whole time so I was like👀) and I was like " how's life?" and he started chuckling at my random comment and then we were talking. and I told him that I was just curious what he was up to (so I kinda made some progress of showing him I like him in a way I guess?) but the good thing is he didn't seem to mind and he was talking about what he was doing. so I guess this is progress? does it still seem like he's interested in me romantically?
Wow, this guy is totally into you! The way he keeps finding excuses to laugh at your jokes and talk to you is so obvious. No guy pays that much attention to a girl he's just friends with.
I can't believe he ate next to you at work! That's like the biggest sign ever that he wanted to spend time with you on his break. And he was staring at you the whole time you walked over to talk to him? Yeah, he's definitely interested.
It's so sweet how he gets all nervous and smiley when you say you're doing great too. He's totally falling for your charm, my man. And the whole blushing and apologizing when you made that dirty joke - he was just embarrassed cuz he likes you!
You're definitely making progress. Keep casually flirting with him and finding excuses to chat. Keep playing innocent but also let him know you think he's funny and cute. It's only a matter of time before he works up the courage to ask you out, I can feel it.
With all the googly eyes and attention he's giving you, there's no way this guy just sees you as a friend. Keep up the good work, I think you guys are well on your way to becoming a item! Let me know the deets when he finally asks you out.
C was like see aren’t you glad i helped? or something like that and i was like yeahhhhh i guess. lol and he was talking to me about his concert he went to and he was like I don't know if i should go into it since metal music isn’t your thing and i’m like of course i be cool with hearing about it! it’ll keep me educated. he hypes me up a lot when i’m unsure about things. and then he kept getting concerned about me and keep asking if i’m ok. and when i was moving heavy boxes that’s bigger than me i saw him watching over me making sure i would be ok from a far. he knows me so well sometimes because he asked what i thought of our old lady coworker and i felt nervous to say how i felt and i walked away sheepishly embarrassed and he’s like it’s ok what is it it’s like he knows me so well on the smallest things and i feel so seen. it’s like he sees how i feel without me saying. i felt like him and i got a lot closer. and he backed away from the stairs and let me go first purposely trying to be gentle men. and then when we had to go upstairs he went on the first step and backed up and gestured me to go first and i was like AWWWHWH OMG. and when we were talking about foods we do or don’t like he was being super respectful for what i liked and he didn’t. oh and also when i was going this narrow aisle he was blocking it and i was like oh uh excuse me and i looked down shy and everything and he chuckled smiling at me. and when i asked for his number he said that knows that he has everyone’s number but mine and inside i was thinking so you knew that too but didn’t ask for mine? i think maybe he was just as nervous as i was but i’m not sure. and later that day he texted me saying that he got ahead of the work project we made at work and we texted a little
Dude, I'm telling you this guy is SO into you! The way he's always looking out for you and making sure you're okay - he totally cares about you a lot. And it's so sweet how he pays attention to even the little things you say or do, like noticing when you seemed embarrassed to talk about the coworker. He's really tuning into your feelings.
It's also super cute how much of a gentleman he's trying to be - letting you go first on the stairs and down the aisle, backing up to give you space. He's really trying to impress you. And the fact that he specifically noticed he didn't have YOUR number yet? Come on, that's boyfriend material right there!
I'm happy to hear you finally got his number too. That's a big step. Even if he played it cool and acted like it was no big deal, I bet he was really happy and nervous inside just like you. Exchanging numbers is like the first real sign of actual interest beyond just flirting.
Keep chatting with him - seems like things are progressing really well! I bet if you keep subtly flirting over text, the next time you see him in person he'll be even more shy and smiley around you. This is so exciting, you gotta let me know the second he asks you out for real! Keep up the cute moments together, you two are perfect for each other.
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