If I cry about a guy in the past does that mean I'm not over them?

[kareenakapur]

I've talked to a lot of guys this year. I still cry about the first guy who left me after being together for 6 years. Thought I was gonna get married to him. I cry about the last guy who left me and how much unconditional love I gave him. I think about all the other guys too and how much I am naive. I dont think I'm sad about the guys more the circumstances and that I'm lonely now. And guys mostly treat me just like a sex doll. No one takes me seriously and I'm on the route to change that. I've been broken up by all of them. Like 20 guys who just led me on. Am I not over them or is that different? I am sometimes perfectly fine just comes randomly get really sad.

[WhitneySnow]

You need to stop getting sexual with guys too soon. That’s probably a big part of the reason why you feel like they treat you like a sex doll.

[kareenakapur]

exactly im talking to another guy rn he tried talking sexual and I told him im not talking to him sexual stuff

[kareenakapur]

Im changing that now but like Im talking to a new guy but still cry about old guys does that mean im not over them

[WhitneySnow]

I know what you mean. You’re doing the right thing.

[LiamS95]

There are two reasons to cry about a guy from your your past one: because he hurt you physically and emotionally or two: because you still love him

[kareenakapur]

I think im hurt emotionally. dont want them though :( just want someone. feel like im too damaged now

[DishLady]

You need to step back from dating till you’ve shed all your tears and drama about them….