What does it mean when a guy can’t help but look at other females when he’s in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

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He came home today and said this girl at the shop was getting really nervous around him and she lost control of her thinking. Dunno why I need to know that but yeah I know a lot of girls look at him but he can’t help but look at like every single girl to see what she looks like like there’s this girl at the motel where we’re staying at and he keep looking up at her door to see if she’d come out again, I think it’s awfully rude to think I don’t notice this!

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+1 y

I’m thinking of breaking up cause it’s making me feel insecure and jealous, it’s not a good look. 👀 or to feel this way constantly

[Anonymous]

I've had this happen. It's a terrible feeling. We were on our way to the beach together when I noticed him doing his fancy "head cracking" technique and saw he was looking at the girl that was walking across the street. I was so upset I started crying. It hurt so much, and then I thought I need to be like her. Then when we were at the beach I told my dad I'm done with him. My dad was upset bc he thought I was just messing around playing with his feelings, but no I was hurt. I kept talking to him anyway though because I felt bad because he had done quite a bit to talk to me. Well, now we aren't talking. He was looking at me while with his new girlfriend and I got so upset. These guys don't seem too change. They just think you should only pay attention to them, but they can have wandering eyes and look at whoever they want. The guy I was talking to that did this, I never told him I caught him, and he was a very jealous guy. But it doesn't matter... He's gone and I'm glad. Feel bad for his now wife but 🤷‍♀️ these guys aren't taught respect or how to value girls. They are taught they can have whatever they want and we need to get over it. They are used to all the girls they have been with. That's why I think sleeping around so much can really cause a problem for guys because it can teach them to never be satisfied with one.

[236color]

It means he's human. So are you, you look at other people but nobody is calling you out for it. The idea that anyone in a relationship is NEVER going to notice someone else is ridiculous.

[Asker]

Okay. Wise old owl. Sorry but I don’t have that perception on relationships. I’m looking for “the one” here in my life not settling for less than so you have that view, doesn’t mean it has to be mine. Nobody is calling me out for it because I don’t want to do it. Simple. Call me a hopeless romantic. Because Dassit.

[Asker]

True love not convenient love. All love here though to you and yours.

[236color]

Love and sexual attraction are not the same thing.

[236color]

Dear, you're not looking for a man, you're looking for a fairy tale.

[nawtee_me]

It means he is not at all happy with whom he is with or his eyes wouldn’t wonder so much. Now and then might be normal but not at every pretty girl that walks by.

[boggboss]

Lack of self control and respect for his girlfriend

[_piotr]

It is normal to find some women beautiful. Even in relationship men still have eyes.

[katiesmuff]

Means he is pretty much normal

[Asker]

Okay. I feel for you, I do.

[katiesmuff]

Tell me you don't take a second look at very handsome men you pass by?

[Asker]

Nahh I actually don’t tbh, I know what you’re suppose to behave like in a relationship and that’s not it. Sorry.

[Asker]

If that’s normal to you then you need to reevaluate who you’re being with.

[Asker]

It’s called having a quality of being loyal. Hope you can relate. 🙂

[katiesmuff]

Someone I love and adore more than life itself

[Asker]

Yes 🙌

[_piotr]

@Rebecca2378 you do not look at handsome men, because women are not visual, but men are.

[Anonymous]

He's about to become single?

[negrl4a69]

He's a pig and don't respect u