What does it mean when a guy looks a girl everytime he sees her?

Question

I think it's been months (not sure since I didn't realize at first because I thought about another guy) that this guy looks/glances/stares at me everytime he sees me. Today, I was going down the stairs and he was about to go up walking behind his friends who are tall, I looked at him, looked away, when he was about to pass me, I looked up and he was already looking so we made eye contact and he moved a little to let me space to walk.

Later, I was queuing to enter the cafeteria and when he arrived he looked at me, then kept fixing his hair, looked again later (I looked at him also, that's not only him) sometimes from the corner of his eye. At the cafeteria, I was already seated with my friends and happened to look over my shoulder when him and his friends arrived, searching for places, they were looking far, at the back where there was a lot of places while he looked at me, they seated at the table behind (he sat right behind me). He pulled his chair quite far (a lot more than necessary) so it was close to me, I could smell a perfume, sat and during lunch, stretched his arms up behind (close to me again) many times. I don't know that guy.

Answer 1

Anonymous

He is shy and his interested. So go and talk to him, this is the only way to find out. A girl playing the same with me now for months, and I really don't know what to do. But I'm getting tired so I will talk to her somehow. So if You like him go and don't look back.

Asker

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I thought I was overthinking everything... Well, if you're in the same situation and tell me to go and talk to him, you should probably do the same ;)
However I'm too shy to try to talk
Opinion Owner

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I will try, because I've got nothing to lose and I get tired. She drives me crazy with this for months now and I'm afraid too a bit. I'm overthinking too that's the problem. What if I misunderstand the whole... I said it for You because , I'm a guy and I know what the boy wants because I'm in the same situation. She's watching and I'm not sure what she exactly wants. Thats the worst. We are in the same shoes. He's watching You but you still thinking why. Be sure why believe me..
Asker

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I wouldn't keep watching a guy if I didn't care about him or if I find him ugly/stupid/a bad person (That would be the contrary, I'd ignore him) She is interested in you as well, I believe it

You overthink because you want to be 100% sure, just like me
By the way, does all that I wrote is relevant? I mean, all of this express interest or not? What he did during lunch, was it done on purpose in your opinion?
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Opinion Owner

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You just answered Your question, in your answe for me. We are usually give signs as things as this. He is shy even if he looks confident. He have no idea how to get in conversation with You because He thinks like us in the WHAT IF world. And if You are a shy girl as mine and just staring at him not doing anything it will be diffifult. I know the rule says the the man should make the first move. That's true. But think yourself in a situation as this guys or me is into. It's bad right? Give him signs add him on FB, follow his Instagram. He will be more positive and maybe he will catch the moment to talk to you finally.
Asker

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You're right
I thought the way he acted with me was particulary sweet, I don't tell precisely why but that's how it feels and most of the guys that were once interested in me acted more either abruptly or too discreetly, can't tell why though
But I don't even know his first name lol
Opinion Owner

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Haha. Yes it can be a lot of different signs which could be more sweet or more bad. You see? Until You answered for me You could have find him. How many minutes would it take this times?:) Go ahead and find him. And don't start to think to add him just press the button. Don't be as me who's overthinking almost half a year..
Asker

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I've always thought it is easier to give someone advices than to try to help myself

I believe what he did isn't bad, with some guys I wasn't sure but with him, that s kinda sweet

I'm going to try to find his name first then I ll see what I can do
Opinion Owner

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Yes , that will be the best.;) It's much easier to give advices for others

Answer 2

Asker

I thought I was overthinking everything... Well, if you're in the same situation and tell me to go and talk to him, you should probably do the same ;)
However I'm too shy to try to talk

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

I will try, because I've got nothing to lose and I get tired. She drives me crazy with this for months now and I'm afraid too a bit. I'm overthinking too that's the problem. What if I misunderstand the whole... I said it for You because , I'm a guy and I know what the boy wants because I'm in the same situation. She's watching and I'm not sure what she exactly wants. Thats the worst. We are in the same shoes. He's watching You but you still thinking why. Be sure why believe me..

Answer 4

Asker

I wouldn't keep watching a guy if I didn't care about him or if I find him ugly/stupid/a bad person (That would be the contrary, I'd ignore him) She is interested in you as well, I believe it

You overthink because you want to be 100% sure, just like me
By the way, does all that I wrote is relevant? I mean, all of this express interest or not? What he did during lunch, was it done on purpose in your opinion?

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

You just answered Your question, in your answe for me. We are usually give signs as things as this. He is shy even if he looks confident. He have no idea how to get in conversation with You because He thinks like us in the WHAT IF world. And if You are a shy girl as mine and just staring at him not doing anything it will be diffifult. I know the rule says the the man should make the first move. That's true. But think yourself in a situation as this guys or me is into. It's bad right? Give him signs add him on FB, follow his Instagram. He will be more positive and maybe he will catch the moment to talk to you finally.

Answer 6

Asker

You're right
I thought the way he acted with me was particulary sweet, I don't tell precisely why but that's how it feels and most of the guys that were once interested in me acted more either abruptly or too discreetly, can't tell why though
But I don't even know his first name lol

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

Haha. Yes it can be a lot of different signs which could be more sweet or more bad. You see? Until You answered for me You could have find him. How many minutes would it take this times?:) Go ahead and find him. And don't start to think to add him just press the button. Don't be as me who's overthinking almost half a year..

Answer 8

Asker

I've always thought it is easier to give someone advices than to try to help myself

I believe what he did isn't bad, with some guys I wasn't sure but with him, that s kinda sweet

I'm going to try to find his name first then I ll see what I can do

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

Yes , that will be the best.;) It's much easier to give advices for others

Answer 10

Anonymous

He might either find you attractive or he feels something when he looks at you.

Answer 11

thatkaruguy | 362 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

his eyes are properelly functioning

Asker

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are you here to get more xper or what?
thatkaruguy

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nah i give sarcastic answers when questions with obvious answers are asked.
Asker

+1 y
Some things aren't that obvious when you're -18 and inexperienced
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thatkaruguy

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hmm i suppose so.
Asker

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So what do you really think? Another opinion is always helpful
thatkaruguy

+1 y
he more than likely likes you
Asker

+1 y
Even though he doesn't know me? I thought most of what I wrote was irrelevant but his behaviour seemed weird so I wanted to know what others think
thatkaruguy

+1 y
why would him knowing you or not have any affect on if he liked you hahaha
Asker

+1 y
I thought we can only like someone when we've already talk to that person and we know him/her but I'm wrong then

What do you think about what he did at lunch? Was it on purpose or not in our opinion?
thatkaruguy

+1 y
dont worry about the little stuff. if you like the guy then talk to him most guys dont make the first move unless the woman showed some indication that she's not opposed to it
Asker

+1 y
Some indication? Like a little smile? Something else?
thatkaruguy

+1 y
smiling when you see him would be a good start saying hi as well
Asker

+1 y
Thanks for tis advice
Does a girl who's alone look more approachable than with 2 friends or more?
thatkaruguy

+1 y
yes because a lot of girls act differently around friends and if a guy gets rejected he doesn't want everyone to know
Asker

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Oh, I see, I'm going to be alone a little tomorrow because some of my friends leave highschool before me, so I'm not sure he'll try anything, he seems quite shy but sometimes the way he tries to get close (as I wrote) makes him look less shy

there's no chance we're actually wrong, sure that guy likes me?

Anyway, thank you very much for all your advices
thatkaruguy

+1 y
I'm pretty sure he likes you so just try to start a conversation

Answer 12

Asker

are you here to get more xper or what?

Answer 13

thatkaruguy

nah i give sarcastic answers when questions with obvious answers are asked.

Answer 14

Asker

Some things aren't that obvious when you're -18 and inexperienced

Answer 15

thatkaruguy

hmm i suppose so.

Answer 16

Asker

So what do you really think? Another opinion is always helpful

Answer 17

thatkaruguy

he more than likely likes you

Answer 18

Asker

Even though he doesn't know me? I thought most of what I wrote was irrelevant but his behaviour seemed weird so I wanted to know what others think

Answer 19

thatkaruguy

why would him knowing you or not have any affect on if he liked you hahaha

Answer 20

Asker

I thought we can only like someone when we've already talk to that person and we know him/her but I'm wrong then

What do you think about what he did at lunch? Was it on purpose or not in our opinion?

Answer 21

thatkaruguy

dont worry about the little stuff. if you like the guy then talk to him most guys dont make the first move unless the woman showed some indication that she's not opposed to it

Answer 22

Asker

Some indication? Like a little smile? Something else?

Answer 23

thatkaruguy

smiling when you see him would be a good start saying hi as well

Answer 24

Asker

Thanks for tis advice
Does a girl who's alone look more approachable than with 2 friends or more?

Answer 25

thatkaruguy

yes because a lot of girls act differently around friends and if a guy gets rejected he doesn't want everyone to know

Answer 26

Asker

Oh, I see, I'm going to be alone a little tomorrow because some of my friends leave highschool before me, so I'm not sure he'll try anything, he seems quite shy but sometimes the way he tries to get close (as I wrote) makes him look less shy

there's no chance we're actually wrong, sure that guy likes me?

Anyway, thank you very much for all your advices

Answer 27

thatkaruguy

I'm pretty sure he likes you so just try to start a conversation

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