What did he want from me💀?

[Anonymous]

He always invite me to go out, but he never pay for me. And what worse, he would always ask me to pay first. Then he immediately pay back after that💀

Not to forget, he ‘force’ me to watch movie. Even when i say i dont feel like watching it during that time. Then i just give in, and bam! I need to pay as well💀

[zayndan]

You should ask him about it honestly, because i have no idea why a guy would behave like that. Just doesn't makes sense to me.

[Asker]

Im scared he might see me as ‘cheap’ or stingy when i question it

[zayndan]

You're scared? It's not u being cheap, it's called you having respect for yourself, and you asking a perfectly normal question. If his reasons are good, he shouldn't feel any kind of way. But if he intends to keep this on for the rest of y'all lives, then wouldn't it be a good idea for u to know about it now?

[Asker]

That’s actually true.. i might consider asking him about this

[aengus27]

Not even offering to split? Or even alternate paying? That's a bit of a yikes

[Asker]

We do split all the time. But just that, its always me paying first. Its kinda weird for me because its him the one who invite. At least even if he want to split, he can pay first and i pay him back

[aengus27]

Yeah, but this isn't exactly splitting. Maybe you could ask "hey, are you fine paying for half?" Because it seems that it's just you paying and getting paid back

[Asker]

I mean.
He pay back for his half. Not entire bills

[rienna888]

Lol this guy is a cheap ass, never go out with cheap asses. This guy told me to get him coffee I’m like hell no wtf

[Asker]

Sis same🤡 he even ask me that before

[rienna888]

Yeah he’s looking for a sugar momma, I think these are boys

[rienna888]

Also when he asks you to pay first and he pays you back, it means this guy is very calculating and keeps track of who pays. Like if you ever live together he will make sure everything is 50/50 and you will never get a dime from him. Lol

[Asker]

Such a turnoff tbh💔 and kinda breaks my heart too. Knowing he is financially well..

[rienna888]

How come it breaks your heart? Do you have feelings for him? Don’t feel that way sweetie, you deserve better

[Asker]

Yerp i do have feelings for him.. awhhh thanks

[rienna888]

Awww it’s okay, you can’t help the way you feel but cheapness and penny pinching is really a turn off

[Asker]

Indeed.. I wish you are well too 🫶🏻

[rienna888]

Thank you hun, im okay ❤️

[DishLady]

He doesn't want ANYTHING from you. It's called being friends.

[Part2603]

Uh, you can always say no...

[Asker]

That will ruin our friendship