I have a few guys doing this with me. It’s the winter, I’ve known them as Friends for decades but I’ve had no interaction since then. They both randomly reached out this month and here I am, chatting. One said he saw me on a dating app and reached out. The other said that he remembered that he liked me those years ago but wanted to get to know me better. It makes me feel a little shallow in ways because my enjoyment lies in face to face interactions far more and virtual leaves so much room for misinterpretation.
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Have you gone to lunch or something like that? I always find face to face better. It gives you a much better picture of that persons feelings.
Text/email/social media messages or behaviour is often interpreted differently by different people.
Sounds to me as if he likes you but doesn't think you feel the same way
He thinks you're not that interested but still likes you
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I've had guys do this to me. It's an ego boost. They come around to check in, to see if you'll reply once, or a few times. Once you do, they know you're not dating anyone and you still have interest in them. They'll like your social media posts so you'll remember they are still around. You're the backup plan to when there's no one else. It's a mind game.
What are you doing any different than him?
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