Is he being serious I mean cmon? why wouldn’t he just leave it as a surprise honestly?

[Anonymous]

[HelpfulWoman]

oh its you with the red flags on both sides.

[Anonymous]

I don't know why this guy gives me such bad vibes. Whenever the green card comes into the conversation and he’s eager for marriage, it’s odd….

[Asker]

You reckon cause I’m kind of iffy a lot in the relationship cause of that reason

[Asker]

I mean we have been together for 2 years

[Asker]

Eh even if he was using me, I wouldn’t mind to much if it helps him in anyway

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I just think it’s odd and concerning. Helping someone is much different than being used. One is deceitful and gets you hurt, the other is honest on both sides.

[bowenw]

That is a very weird exchange.

[Asker]

Why’s that

[bowenw]

That he just sprang the fact on you that you two were getting married.

[Asker]

I know right

[Asker]

So weird

[bowenw]

Did you get the certificate and then get married? Don't you need a license first?

[Asker]

I have no idea what a marriage certificate is

[Asker]

I thought you get married then by law get a certificate sent out in the mail?

[bowenw]

That is what I understand as well.

[Anonymous]

No one cares

[Opinion Owner]

You'll be supporting that bum just remember that

[Opinion Owner]

You'll be supporting that bum financially just remember that

[Opinion Owner]

And let's not forget the fact he's just using you for his citizenship and your money and when he leaves you he'll try taking everything you have everything you worked hard for and you'll be left with nothing other than a broken heart and a set of bad memories

[Asker]

He financially supports me actually and I don’t know if he is using me but all I know is that sometimes I look at him and he sleeps in a nice warm bed. It makes me realise how much I appreciate the little things I have living in a privileged country. I think he deserves them little things too.