Is he dropping hints?

[Anonymous]

I know this trainer from my gym And he is so lovely we click very well

He kind of listened to me and what I’ve been through the past while from work to my Ex boyfriend

then I was leaving he put his hand on my shoulder and asked me if I wanted a hug and gave me one

then on Tuesday he was saying how he liked my runners where am i originally from how work is..

just telling me about his life sort of …

askimg where am I originally from

Talk about things in common

im not sure if I’m getting a hint from him or he just wants to be friends

[ManOnFire]

I will say this: a lot of trainers have sex with their female clients, or at least seek to. I'm not saying he is necessarily trying to, but just keep it in mind. These guys are not romantic heroes for the most part. He doesn't want to be your friend, and probably not your boyfriend. But it's very likely that he's looking for something very short-term.

He probably is just behaving kindly to you to (1) maintain a positive and friendly customer experience for you. And (2) to see how far he can go with it to gauge the situation and get sex with you. He will of course try to be friendly and interested in your life as a way to make you comfortable so he can get a foot in the door.

Again, I'm not saying he's necessarily trying to but I do not believe that he wants anything serious with you. Remember: a lot of trainers have sex with their female clients, and I've known some of these guys personally in the past.

[Summeroflove]

Really depends on how you feel about him. Are you creped out? Interested in him? Or totally indifferent? If you like him then ask him out yourself.

With his position he might not ask you out himself. He very well may think that it is too risky and move onto someone else and you then have lost your opportunity

[Asker]

He asks what I’m doing for the day
The complements
The eye contact
Commenting on my accent
Basically saying I speak better than other people in my area
The runner talk
Askimg about my weekend
He once said he hopes he is making me cormtable
I mean I might be going a little crazy

[Asker]

But Jezz I don’t put that move effort into people

[Summeroflove]

Asker. If you don't then you don't know if they will make a move on you then... You could miss your chance.

There is a good chance he likes you. But I don't know if you flirt or anything. You never know someone could find someone else they start to like or someone could flat make a move on them. You aren't the only person who likes him you can assume. Also some people can have more then one crush at a time... He could move on another person or if you are friends not want to mess things up and pick someone whose a safer option.

Worst things wosrt I am sure your biggest fear is rejection... Yeah it can happen. But put it this way. If you do get rejected... Now you don't have to waste your time waiting on someone to make a move who never will point blank.

If you like someone then you need to ask them.

[spartan55]

You forgot to mention the part that he has a girlfriend. You are just ignoring that fact which says a lot about you. You are gross af.