Why does my gut tell me that he likes me?

[Anonymous]

Im always finding something negative to say but why with this guy even though he seems jealous and acussing me of what he might be doing I feel he has real feelings for me. Im always so negative about men but with this one like I said he might be cheating or whatever because of the way he’s jealous I feel this way. How to get rid of this feeling

[Anonymous]

It's natural to have mixed emotions when dealing with relationships and past experiences can shape our perceptions. To overcome your negative feelings and give this relationship a fair chance.

1. Reflect on past experiences: Acknowledge how past relationships have influenced your views on men and relationships.

2. Identify positive qualities: Make a conscious effort to recognize and appreciate this guy's genuine and positive qualities.

3. Communicate openly: Share your feelings and concerns with him, and listen to his perspective.

4. Focus on the present: Try to avoid projecting past experiences onto this relationship.

5. Practice self-reflection: Regularly examine your thoughts and emotions to distinguish between past patterns and present realities.

6. Give yourself time: Allow your feelings to evolve as you get to know him better.

7. Trust your instincts: If you feel he's genuinely invested in you, consider trusting your instincts.

Remember, relationships involve growth and learning together. Embrace this new experience with an open mind and heart.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand what your question is about. Are you already with this guy?

[DishLady]

Whoever this guy is -- because you're not saying if this is a boyfriend/SO or some hobo off the street -- if he's getting all jealous, accusatory and toxic why are you giving him your time or attention? Toxicity does not translate to "Feelings for You." 🤦🏻‍♀️

Next, you say you're so negative about men "BUT" and then accuse whoever this guy is of cheating... Your question doesn't make any sense... and neither does this situation you're choosing to stay in...

Get rid of the feeling by getting rid of the guy. So simple.

[DreamLife7]

Why does my gut tell me you're delusional? The fact u have to post this should tell u that he doesn't like u. Stop being a weirdo

[spartan55]

Who are you talking about?

[Anonymous]

I don't know.