I got stood up by my ex friends with benefits yesterday, I messaged him 3 times if he was coming and got no reply?

[Anonymous]

After he said he'd be on his way when he finished work. Got a message this morning to say he smelled a rat and didn't trust me. I asked him what he meant and he said doesn't matter I don't trust you.

and I just know he went to another woman rather than come to mine like arranged, I asked him and he said i had mental health issues and should go get help. The day before he asked me to send videos of myself, made it out he was coming to see me. I feel embarrassed, I've not left my room and wondering what the hell has happened, because I don't understand why anyone would do that?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man that really sucks, what a jerk! Ditching plans last minute and then accusing you of stuff with no explanation, super rude. I wouldn't even waste time worrying what his deal is cuz clearly he's messed up somehow to treat you like that.

Don't be embarrassed either, his actions say way more about him than you. You didn't do anything wrong. Just try to do something to take your mind off it, hang with some other friends or indulge in something you enjoy. His loss!

Who needs guys like that anyways, always pulling shady moves and playing games. You'll find someone better who appreciates you and doesn't stand you up, his loss! Don't let this bring you down, you seem cool so don't waste your time stressing over some dude who can't even communicate. His problem, not yours. Keep your head up!

[jahaims]

You let a guy use you as a cum rag. Do you think he cares about you or your time?

[Baublebar234]

You sound like you do need some help. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not right that he stood you up. But you being so fixated on his reason why he did what he did should honestly be a non factor to your life. Nobody actually knows the real reason why he did it except for him. But regardless of the reason, he moved on so you should too.

[kylee2437]

There’s more to the story you aren’t telling. Nobody says what he said without something big you either outted and such.

[Asker]

I told him my car was parked outside and he said u don't drive that's not your car blah blah

[kylee2437]

So whose car was it if you don’t drive?

[Asker]

My daughters