Why would a guy all of a sudden want to befriend you or get to know you?

[Anonymous]

if he never cared to talk to you after months of knowing about you?

[ProbablyClueless]

The man has a life of his own. He probably had stuff going on before that he doesn't have going on now.

[Asker]

He Used to be social with most people in the past but not with me

[ProbablyClueless]

I feel yah. Every relationship is different though. Try not to think about this kind of thing too deeply.

[andy530]

Sounds like he might find you attractive

[Asker]

Yeah but don’t you notice that right away and not only months later?

[andy530]

Usually yeah but you might not act on it for months

[Anonymous]

Maybe he was too shy to do anything?

[Kaizer000]

To smash.

[Asker]

Why didn’t he want to smash in the beginning?

[Kaizer000]

Cos sometimes you feel like that a bit later.

[Asker]

I thought guys want to smash everything they consider attractive immediately

[Kaizer000]

Not necessarily. I mean we would if we were single and they offered but like that never happens so yeah 😂🤣