Why do some guys think I am stupid during a hook up?

[Anonymous]

They don’t know me and they think things that aren’t true about me and one guy called me a retard during sex and he think I didn’t understand things when this isn’t true at all. Why do some guys think it’s ok to treat a girl this way during sex when she’s not like that at all?

[midnightmoon05]

Because you allow them!! Them!! Not just one… guys have that kind of intuition… that you have low self worth and that’s how they would treat you.
if you value your body and mind… guys would know… so… it’s that simple… you are nothing but a sex object.
you don’t treat yourself as a girl/woman… they will not either.
Stop hooking up. Even prostitutions have more self esteem than giving free sex.

[avery58]

A lot of guys who engage in hook ups or one night stands don't respect the girl that agrees to such thing. Hypocritical, I know. I don't think you should let anyone use you, at the very least you should make sure he's not like the type of guys I just described.

[ManOnFire]

Newsflash: a guy isn't going to respect a girl he's hooking up with, because deep down he knows she doesn't respect herself. So he will find it easy to insult you. He might even think you like that, since a lot of girls are into being degraded sexually.

[DishLady]

1. You fell for whatever line worked on you that lead to the hookup.

2. They already have stereotypes about "girl logic" floating around in their minds that they apply who look/sound like you... or to girls in general.

3. What tf are you doing to make them think you're anything more than a dumb little chippy who's DTF?

[spartan55]

So this happens every time you have sex?

[slatyb]

Why do you keep wasting time with abusive men?