Why are some men so stupid? Why do some guys on dating apps have a girlfriend and talk with other girls?

[736_switch_blade]

Why do some guys are on dating apps have a girlfriend and talk with other girls?

[Alwayreckles93]

Or maybe why are people so stupid. Their dangerous people out their and people put so much trust on these apps. A girl was murder because she tough she had a date from these apps and guess what she got raped and murder. You young stupid girls put so much trust into strangers.

[TonyV]

Dating apps are trash, women do that too, yell women will match just to shit talk the guy and ghost, or just to get validation with no intention of dating anyone.

So its not a gendered thing, men and women that injoy being on them shitty apps are shitty people.

You might as well try talking to people at bars, stores, libraries, just in real life face to face, cause the apps are a waste of time.

[Lionman95]

Because they love the attention. The problem is that we guys are easily distractable, if a woman that looks attractive comes around we look at her.
It´s the same procedure online. We all want acknowledgement and the attention of other people so some guys start using tinder and dating apps like social media because they feel entitled to experience as much as possible in their youth.

[mermaidcancermoon]

Theyre self loathing and codependent
Afraid to leave the relationship so they search for what they need through other people. Its kinda like wanting more treats even though the first isn't done. They lack self control and have some inner work to do.

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

Might be they are not committed. So they keep their options open and play the field. Not sure if I could do that. If I had special interest in a female I would want to explore that seriously first.

Good reason why groups are better too. Not serious and learning about many people at once.

[ArtemisSilver]

Because ethical non monogamy, polyamory, polyfidelity and swinging lifestyles exist.

There's also the shady cheaters and people looking to trade up.

Supposedly monogamous women try to trade up like nobody else though. It's practically a meme.

[Anonymous]

Whey are women so stupid? On dating apps, my experience is that women will match with you and then not check their messages, or check their messages and not reply, or check their messages and block you. Why do women on dating apps not seem to actually want to date anyone? Why are men’s affections so worthless to women that they don’t even merit response?

[JamesDiaz11]

The same reason women have public instagrams, with bikini pics, or other thirst trap stuff ("fitness pages") while having boyfriend- because they want the attention/ validation.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I know where you are coming from Them dating Apps don't always work and yes some men want to play the field and it's not fair to girls... If I have a girlfriend the last thing I want to do is mess around with other girls.

[Finchie40]

Because they don’t value their girlfriend, they just like the convenience of her , she is just something to do , she is best to kick him to the curb and realize not all guys are that way

[DavidRaul]

Well i have the opposite experience. I see many girls on dating apps doing the same thing, pretending not to have a boyfriend but they still do. Whos to blame? No one.

[loveslongnails]

They're looking for what they consider to be an "upgrade". If you're asking why they do this WHILE they supposedly already HAVE a steady girlfriend, that's because they don't give a fuck ABOUT them. They only care about BEING fucked by them.

[maximumpower]

guys will ALWAYS talk with other girls when they can - just like girls will ALWAYS communicate with men they find attractive (or those from whom they wish to get attention).
"stupid" is not reserved for just one gender.

[Honesttguy]

Why do girls get on apps just to get attention and likes but dont go out with guys?

[Reaper1985]

Same reason why some girls do the same thing. Because they want to keep their options open and get validation from others.

[Alwayreckles93]

It's the stupid younger woman that dress like sluts and put so much trust on strangers.

[Part2603]

What are you serious? How many guys are you talking to?

[lofii]

We need something fresh, something new, something with the same amount of grip as that gorilla glue hair gel

[Jacob147]

This one made me laugh

[DarkWinterNights]

Because those are the types of guys who are successful on dating apps.

[FilmGuy93]

This is yet another of the many questions that can be answered by the statement "some people suck."

[athlete_7]

Not stupid just more horny which drive them to be scum not all men are scum. Most men dont double date like dat

[PatriceONeal]

Becuase they know women don't mind sleeping with a man who's already in a relationship. They don't have self respect.

[12zooleud]

Low self esteem, need it to selfishly feel better about themselves

[whiskeyontherocks]

Could say the same thing about women just don’t engage with them

[Anonymous]

Because unlike females who get endless attention from other males and therefore have no need to look for it... We do not yet attention and it feels nice to know you are attractive to other people.