I’ve made it clear that I’m looking for a relationship. I don’t do anything more than a hug on the first date. Yet, the guys I go on dates with will try to go for a hookup. Recently, I went for coffee with a guy, we ended up going to dinner after because he said he wanted to spend more time with me and then 2 days later he said he wanted to f*ck me.
I never gave the impression that I was down for a hookup. I straight up said I was looking for a relationship. Why do guys do this? This isn’t the first time that this has happened. We met on a dating app, by the way and he said he was “open to anything”
