It's weird to me. They are always soft spoken guys on the richer end even if they can be very blunt then he will have a website saying he has great interpersonal skills. I am not that attractive and can be either entertaining or kind of boring. But it's like they just want to use me or expect entertainment. I don't understand as this is not mens usual reaction to me. I've given up on dating at this point as I don't think these soft spoken men and me are compatible. I am not conventionally good looking. Is there something about my vibe that makes them act this way? I really don't understand why some of them expect me to be so entertaining. If it's the right guy I can be entertaining but these guys will talk to me for like 5 minutes and decide I'm going to entertain them. Other people think I'm intelligent but guys like this also seem to think I'm stupid. I don't know where that disconnect comes from? I want to make a point that 95% of guys wouldn't even care that I exist. I just have an issue not being taken seriously by this kind of guy as I don't think I am dumb.
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Ugh girl, I totally know what you mean. Some guys can be so full of themselves, like they deserve constant entertainment just cause they have money or whatever. Don't let those dudes get you down!
It's totally not on you to perform for them. You shouldn't have to prove yourself interesting in 5 minutes or feel like some clown there for their amusement. Your worth isn't defined by how " entertaining " you are for snobby guys.
TBH it sounds like they're the problem, not you. Maybe they're insecure so they gotta put other people down to feel better. Or they expect a model girlfriend to boost their ego 24/7. Who has time for that?
You sound great - smart, independent. Own that! Don't waste your time wondering why dopes can't see your value. Their loss. Trust that the right guy will appreciate you for you. Keep doing your thing and lift up other girls too. We got this! 💕